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Age: 63, male, looking for friends (only!) or intimate encounters with a man in Spring Hill, Tennessee, USA2.
Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
3.
Pro Trump, small town, rural, professional, educated, closeted, man looking for a man to date.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in San Antonio, Texas, USA
4.
HARD TO DO THIS.. WITH SO MANY COMING OUT ALL THE TIME. WHY DO THEY WANT ME TO COME OUT? I DON'T
NEED TO COME OUT... IT WOULD DESTROY MY WIFE, MY MARRIAGE, MY REPUTATION AT CHURCH, MY FAMILY. I MUST ALWAYS REMAIN IN THE CLOSET
Age: 66, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA
5.
i am a closeted gay because i have 4 children who are gorwn and have 10 grand children who dont know
i loke men
Age: 69, male, looking for a man in Riverton, Riverton, Wyoming, USA
6.
Seek Fit Masculine Non-Scene Friend/Activity Companion -
I'd like to find a fit, single, financially independent, Caucasian, Latin or Middle Eastern masculine everyday guy between 30 and 55 years of age for activity sharing and an ongoing friend with benefits type of friendship. Someone to hang out with semi-regularly. A good friend...with benefits. Someone who shares my passion for sports, camping/RVing, ocean cruises and more. Nothing too serious or intense, though. Just someone who shares a similar desire for occasional companionship, casual activities and quality relaxing good times together both inside and outside the bedroom. Open to more later if we really connect. And open to someone who lives outside my local area...within a reasonable distance.
I'm 56, 5'10', 276, hairy chest and body, brown hair, green eyes and a trim S&P beard. I've been described as bear, cub, dad, husky, chub or all the above. I'm an affectionate, masculine guy who enjoys kissing and cuddling with another affectionate, masculine guy.
In my free time I like watching sports (huge NFL fan), camping, RVing, home projects, playing pickleball, cooking, cruises, weekend trips, day drives, movie nights and quiet times and good conversation sharing a few beers or a bottle of wine with a handsome, masculine man.
Seeking single, fit masculine only please. Sorry, but not typically drawn to married/partnered, bottoms or big guys.
Please note that I am not interested in quick sex hookups, massage guys or those looking for generous men or someone to support them.
I Am typically attracted to the following:
Caucasian, Hispanic, Latin or Middle Eastern men
Medium to fit athletic builds
Good conversationalist
Ages 30-55
Furry or smooth
Masculine
Intimate
Affectionate
Creative between the sheets
Cuddler
Spontaneous
Short hair/goatee's
Sports fans
Likes Camping/RVing
Ocean Cruises
Fan of other outdoor activities (hiking, hanging by the pool, etc.)
Safe sex
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Sacramento, California, USA
7.
Being out is quite overblown.I don't speculate about other peoples sex lives, expect the same in
return. Happy to stay closeted. Don't get laid much as a result but there is more to me than sex. should you feel the same lets talk If youre under 40 then lets talk asap
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, USA
8.
As I’ve growN beyond my struggles of knowing I am , I acknowledge the challenges of my time in
isolation and fear of being discovered. I could of used a few friends to confide in . I respect the need for privacy .
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in Cambria, San Luis Obispo County, California, USA
9.
I'm in the closet and I'm looking for someone similar to myself.
Age: 59, male, looking for friends with a man in Camden, Ouachita County, Arkansas, USA
10.
Married and closeted.
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in San Jose, San José, COSTA RICA
11.
My wife died 2 years ago August and don't want the drama of another wife. what I do want is a
father/son relationship where there is commitment and growth with out all the trauma to the family.
Age: 83, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Long Beach, California, USA
13.
Bottom
Age: 61, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in McKinney, Collin County, Texas, USA
14.
bi male that's looking for a guy(s) for some m2m fun (NSA) in the san diego area
Age: 65, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in San Diego County, California, USA
15.
I was in the closet for 30+ years. I know what its like, the isolation, deception, covering your
tracks. I honor every man's journey in accepting and celebrating his true nature, however he chooses to show it.
Age: 72, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Nw Greensboro, Greensboro, North Carolina, USA
16.
I am an openly gay erotica writer. I am a top, and enjoy being on the controlling end of things. I
am currently not looking for IRL encounters - what I am looking for is: conversation about your secrets, your fantasies, your real-life experiences that have shaped you to be who you are today. I am generally more interested in those who are still closeted, as I am curious about the things that keep them there. I have been told I am a good listener, and I have mentored youngsters (18-35ish) who are looking for advice in life matters. So if you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you as well.
I know plenty about those closeted straights in the city - but I'd like to know what the differences are for you in your current community/situation. I don't judge, I am just interested to learn about you and your circumstances.
For further interest, my biggest fetishes are intoxication (seeing a man I find attractive very drunk is extremely arousing to me), secrecy (hence the closeted aspect on your end), and control (because of the dominating factor). I have profiles on Recon and Fetlife as well - ask me for my handles there if interested.
If you are still reading, drop me a line. Your story might inspire a chapter in my next book - but nothing we discuss will be published, unless you give me authorization to do so.
Take care, boys.
Tez.
Age: 55, male, looking for friends with a man in Orlando, Florida, USA
17.
Closeted gay bear, single, looking for encounters leading to LTR
Age: 73, male, looking for a man in North, Charlotte, North Carolina, USA
18.
am a gay closet transgender woman looking for a friendship
Age: 65, transgender, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in Fargo, North Dakota, USA
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Like minded people.
Age: 63, male, looking for intimate encounters in Wausau, Marathon County, Wisconsin, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next
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I live in Arlington, Texas.
Age: 46, male, looking for dating with a man in Arlington, Texas, USA
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I am a gay man 55, rural guy who ranches for a living, looking for a man to join me. Thinking about
the possibility of a small gay commune here on the ranch for gay men that are not into the urban life, but still like the company of other gay men. Let me know your thoughts.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA
4.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 68, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
5.
I've always loved the country, Grew up on a big farm-Big family, Love being outdoors. Woods-Streams-Animals.
Being free. But love to hold a man close once in awhile-In boots-chaps.levis - And that manly scent. Just love life.
And will always be young and spirited. And the men must be in boots ,And be a boot lover as I am.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Stevens Point Wi, Rural Area, Wisconsin, USA
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Moved to TN. In 2006 n love the south n country lifestyle.booted guys r so sexy n manly.huge PBR guy
Age: 63, male, looking for friends (only!) or intimate encounters with a man in Spring Hill, Tennessee, USA
7.
I've owned businesses, managed businesses, and worked as an independent contractor.
I've been a helicopter pilot, and piloted the 1912 Ford Model T Speedster in my garage. I'm relaxed in the desert, comfortable in the forest, and competent in the city.
What about you? Tell me about you, rather than asking what I'm here for. We'll get to that. If there's chemistry.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA
8.
All man. Not out. Looking for the same. Grew up farming. Wrestled in HS and college. Professional
now. Love all hunting except duck, fishing, camping, sports.
Age: 50, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Kansas City, Missouri, USA
9.
Masculine, friendly, easygoing, exfarmboy from the midwest. looking for other masc guys for fun
and friendship, travel buddies, adventures, sexual fun...
Age: 99, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Tucson, Arizona, USA
10.
I am loyal, dependable and a good person. I don't like deceit, shallowness, condescending
attitudes, at the end of the day we are ALL equal. I absolutely hate fighting and will not. If you are angry don't take it to the bedroom. You wanna be pissed at me, ok but leave it at the door and pick it up in the morning. Cock size isn't that important, at least to me, besides can't deep throat if it is large. I guess most things are up for debate in a relationship. I have never been in an open relationship and not sure that's for me. I have also never had a 3-way with a lover, not sure of that either. Is there an ideal person or is it a fantasy that never materializes. Do we keep hunting a fantasy and miss Mr. Right? Am I going to be disappointed? I don't view life the same at my age and try to look deeper at the person not the wrapping, I am not going to say no to pretty wrapping
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Texas, USA
11.
Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
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Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
13.
Discreet, live in a rural area, enjoy the outdoors, raise beef cattle, camp and trailride in spare time.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wythe County, Virginia, USA
14.
Very down to earth here and a bit old fashioned when it comes to dating and relationships.
Very much enjoy living in the country. Lived on a horse farm for some years and enjoy horseback riding. Not at all into the 'gay scene', which means I don't go to the bars. Seldom drink, don't smoke but do occasionally enjoy a little 420. I enjoy old fashioned holidays. I DO NOT respond to faceless profiles.
Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Davidson County, Tennessee, USA
15.
Just checking out patriotic cowboys!
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Dallas, Dallas County, Texas, USA
16.
I live in the Kansas City area. I work in the medical profession.
I’m looking for friends, dates, and relationships. Enjoy anything outdoors. Also would like to find a workout buddy for the gym .
Would like to find other singles to go out with. Dinners, drinks and spend time with.
Honestly looking for someone to date, someone who is looking for a relationship, and I’m also looking for friends. Not looking to hook up. I would like to find someone who is sincere. And yes, looking for a monogamous partner
Age: 69, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Kansas City, Kansas, USA
17.
Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
18.
I think I'm a good guy. Pretty good looking. Interested in fitness, outdoor activities, good food
and beers. Realizing most of my friends are work-related and hoping to find some non work friends. Willing to see where things go beyond that.
My politics are center-left. If you're a Trump supporter, MAGA, or Q, don't waste your time and move along.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA
19.
I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
...
Age: 75, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
20.
Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
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I live in Arlington, Texas.
Age: 46, male, looking for dating with a man in Arlington, Texas, USA
3.
I am a gay man 55, rural guy who ranches for a living, looking for a man to join me. Thinking about
the possibility of a small gay commune here on the ranch for gay men that are not into the urban life, but still like the company of other gay men. Let me know your thoughts.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA
4.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 68, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
5.
I've always loved the country, Grew up on a big farm-Big family, Love being outdoors. Woods-Streams-Animals.
Being free. But love to hold a man close once in awhile-In boots-chaps.levis - And that manly scent. Just love life.
And will always be young and spirited. And the men must be in boots ,And be a boot lover as I am.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Stevens Point Wi, Rural Area, Wisconsin, USA
6.
Moved to TN. In 2006 n love the south n country lifestyle.booted guys r so sexy n manly.huge PBR guy
Age: 63, male, looking for friends (only!) or intimate encounters with a man in Spring Hill, Tennessee, USA
7.
I've owned businesses, managed businesses, and worked as an independent contractor.
I've been a helicopter pilot, and piloted the 1912 Ford Model T Speedster in my garage. I'm relaxed in the desert, comfortable in the forest, and competent in the city.
What about you? Tell me about you, rather than asking what I'm here for. We'll get to that. If there's chemistry.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA
8.
All man. Not out. Looking for the same. Grew up farming. Wrestled in HS and college. Professional
now. Love all hunting except duck, fishing, camping, sports.
Age: 50, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Kansas City, Missouri, USA
9.
Masculine, friendly, easygoing, exfarmboy from the midwest. looking for other masc guys for fun
and friendship, travel buddies, adventures, sexual fun...
Age: 99, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Tucson, Arizona, USA
10.
I am loyal, dependable and a good person. I don't like deceit, shallowness, condescending
attitudes, at the end of the day we are ALL equal. I absolutely hate fighting and will not. If you are angry don't take it to the bedroom. You wanna be pissed at me, ok but leave it at the door and pick it up in the morning. Cock size isn't that important, at least to me, besides can't deep throat if it is large. I guess most things are up for debate in a relationship. I have never been in an open relationship and not sure that's for me. I have also never had a 3-way with a lover, not sure of that either. Is there an ideal person or is it a fantasy that never materializes. Do we keep hunting a fantasy and miss Mr. Right? Am I going to be disappointed? I don't view life the same at my age and try to look deeper at the person not the wrapping, I am not going to say no to pretty wrapping
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Texas, USA
11.
Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
...
Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
13.
Discreet, live in a rural area, enjoy the outdoors, raise beef cattle, camp and trailride in spare time.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wythe County, Virginia, USA
14.
Very down to earth here and a bit old fashioned when it comes to dating and relationships.
Very much enjoy living in the country. Lived on a horse farm for some years and enjoy horseback riding. Not at all into the 'gay scene', which means I don't go to the bars. Seldom drink, don't smoke but do occasionally enjoy a little 420. I enjoy old fashioned holidays. I DO NOT respond to faceless profiles.
Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Davidson County, Tennessee, USA
15.
Just checking out patriotic cowboys!
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Dallas, Dallas County, Texas, USA
16.
I live in the Kansas City area. I work in the medical profession.
I’m looking for friends, dates, and relationships. Enjoy anything outdoors. Also would like to find a workout buddy for the gym .
Would like to find other singles to go out with. Dinners, drinks and spend time with.
Honestly looking for someone to date, someone who is looking for a relationship, and I’m also looking for friends. Not looking to hook up. I would like to find someone who is sincere. And yes, looking for a monogamous partner
Age: 69, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Kansas City, Kansas, USA
17.
Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
18.
I think I'm a good guy. Pretty good looking. Interested in fitness, outdoor activities, good food
and beers. Realizing most of my friends are work-related and hoping to find some non work friends. Willing to see where things go beyond that.
My politics are center-left. If you're a Trump supporter, MAGA, or Q, don't waste your time and move along.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA
19.
I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
...
Age: 75, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
20.
Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA Page 1 ⋅ Next