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HARD TO DO THIS.. WITH SO MANY COMING OUT ALL THE TIME. WHY DO THEY WANT ME TO COME OUT? I DON'T
NEED TO COME OUT... IT WOULD DESTROY MY WIFE, MY MARRIAGE, MY REPUTATION AT CHURCH, MY FAMILY. I MUST ALWAYS REMAIN IN THE CLOSET
Age: 68, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA 
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Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) or intimate encounters with a man in Spring Hill, Tennessee, USA 
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA 
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As I’ve growN beyond my struggles of knowing I am , I acknowledge the challenges of my time in
isolation and fear of being discovered. I could of used a few friends to confide in . I respect the need for privacy .
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in Cambria, San Luis Obispo County, California, USA 
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I am a marrieed bi-guy who is looking for other guy who can be very discreet for some male to male
fun. I am 6'1 " 180lbs. light brown hair, blue eyes ,cut average dick. I am D and D free you must be also.
Age: 75, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Amarillo, Texas, USA 
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Looking for friends into winter gear like coveralls and Carhartts. I consider myself a side.
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA 
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Seek Fit Masculine Non-Scene Friend/Activity Companion -
I'd like to find a fit, single, financially independent, Caucasian, Latin or Middle Eastern masculine everyday guy between 30 and 55 years of age for activity sharing and an ongoing friend with benefits type of friendship. Someone to hang out with semi-regularly. A good friend...with benefits. Someone who shares my passion for sports, camping/RVing, ocean cruises and more. Nothing too serious or intense, though. Just someone who shares a similar desire for occasional companionship, casual activities and quality relaxing good times together both inside and outside the bedroom. Open to more later if we really connect. And open to someone who lives outside my local area...within a reasonable distance.
I'm 56, 5'10', 276, hairy chest and body, brown hair, green eyes and a trim S&P beard. I've been described as bear, cub, dad, husky, chub or all the above. I'm an affectionate, masculine guy who enjoys kissing and cuddling with another affectionate, masculine guy.
In my free time I like watching sports (huge NFL fan), camping, RVing, home projects, playing pickleball, cooking, cruises, weekend trips, day drives, movie nights and quiet times and good conversation sharing a few beers or a bottle of wine with a handsome, masculine man.
Seeking single, fit masculine only please. Sorry, but not typically drawn to married/partnered, bottoms or big guys.
Please note that I am not interested in quick sex hookups, massage guys or those looking for generous men or someone to support them.
I Am typically attracted to the following:
Caucasian, Hispanic, Latin or Middle Eastern men
Medium to fit athletic builds
Good conversationalist
Ages 30-55
Furry or smooth
Masculine
Intimate
Affectionate
Creative between the sheets
Cuddler
Spontaneous
Short hair/goatee's
Sports fans
Likes Camping/RVing
Ocean Cruises
Fan of other outdoor activities (hiking, hanging by the pool, etc.)
Safe sex
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Sacramento, California, USA 
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I'm in the closet and I'm looking for someone similar to myself.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends with a man in Camden, Ouachita County, Arkansas, USA 
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My wife died 2 years ago August and don't want the drama of another wife. what I do want is a
father/son relationship where there is commitment and growth with out all the trauma to the family.
Age: 85, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Long Beach, California, USA 
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i am a closeted gay because i have 4 children who are gorwn and have 10 grand children who dont know
i loke men
Age: 70, male, looking for a man in Riverton, Riverton, Wyoming, USA
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bi male that's looking for a guy(s) for some m2m fun (NSA) in the san diego area
Age: 66, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in San Diego County, California, USA
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Pro Trump, small town, rural, professional, educated, closeted, man looking for a man to date.
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in San Antonio, Texas, USA 
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Being out is quite overblown.I don't speculate about other peoples sex lives, expect the same in
return. Happy to stay closeted. Don't get laid much as a result but there is more to me than sex. should you feel the same lets talk If youre under 40 then lets talk asap
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, USA
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Married and closeted.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in San Jose, San José, COSTA RICA 
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Bottom
Age: 62, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in McKinney, Collin County, Texas, USA
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I was in the closet for 30+ years. I know what its like, the isolation, deception, covering your
tracks. I honor every man's journey in accepting and celebrating his true nature, however he chooses to show it.
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Nw Greensboro, Greensboro, North Carolina, USA
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I am an openly gay erotica writer. I am a top, and enjoy being on the controlling end of things. I
am currently not looking for IRL encounters - what I am looking for is: conversation about your secrets, your fantasies, your real-life experiences that have shaped you to be who you are today. I am generally more interested in those who are still closeted, as I am curious about the things that keep them there. I have been told I am a good listener, and I have mentored youngsters (18-35ish) who are looking for advice in life matters. So if you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you as well.
I know plenty about those closeted straights in the city - but I'd like to know what the differences are for you in your current community/situation. I don't judge, I am just interested to learn about you and your circumstances.
For further interest, my biggest fetishes are intoxication (seeing a man I find attractive very drunk is extremely arousing to me), secrecy (hence the closeted aspect on your end), and control (because of the dominating factor). I have profiles on Recon and Fetlife as well - ask me for my handles there if interested.
If you are still reading, drop me a line. Your story might inspire a chapter in my next book - but nothing we discuss will be published, unless you give me authorization to do so.
Take care, boys.
Tez.
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Age: 76, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
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I reject the "Gay" Lifestyle, the "Gay" Flag, the "Gay" political agenda. PERIOD
I am a man who likes men.
Looking for the rural life with one or more men who reject modern society and don't mind chopping wood for heat or driving 2 hours to the nearest big box store.
Looking to retire in the next few years, but until then I have started working 100% remote so I can relocate anywhere (where there's no state income tax, that is). Figure I should find a place in the country with Star Link and work and flesh out my retirement place with the niceties while I can afford it. Anyone want to join me?
The ideal place for me to retire would be Fort Davis, TX on the Davis Mountains; a few acres, single/double wide mobile home, sheds turned into an office and/or tack room, a barn, solar power with battery back up and a rain catchment system. A garden and a few fruit/nut trees and a few chickens. Living as self sufficiently as possible, having outside work to do to stay healthy and in shape and being outdoors. Knowing that friendship and companionship lasts while sex fades, keeps me focused on finding a simple life with like minded men.
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Austin, Texas, USA
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It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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Married over 45 years, Christian, g0y, decent, clean, conservative. Looking for a lasting
friendship, not just hookups. I don't consider myself that good looking, but I have been told by some men that I am. I have also been told that I am a good kisser. I enjoy that kind of intimate feeling with a man. Especially if I find him attractive, but also if we just connect as friends where we have respect and affection for each other. I like to hike and would love a hiking buddy. I realize that I am very limited being married and any potential friend must be kept a secret. My marriage has been sexless since 1988 and I have only been meeting men since 2015.
Age: 68, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA
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I am a gay man 55, rural guy who ranches for a living, looking for a man to join me. Thinking about
the possibility of a small gay commune here on the ranch for gay men that are not into the urban life, but still like the company of other gay men. Let me know your thoughts.
Age: 57, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA
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Moved to TN. In 2006 n love the south n country lifestyle.booted guys r so sexy n manly.huge PBR guy
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) or intimate encounters with a man in Spring Hill, Tennessee, USA
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i grew up on a farm - i like to watch a castration - is my kiniy
Age: 66, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Eimsbüttel, Hamburg, GERMANY
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All man. Not out. Looking for the same. Grew up farming. Wrestled in HS and college. Professional
now. Love all hunting except duck, fishing, camping, sports. Seeking one exclusive friend.
Age: 49, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in St. Louis, Missouri, USA
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I think I'm a good guy. Pretty good looking. Interested in fitness, outdoor activities, good food
and beers. Realizing most of my friends are work-related and hoping to find some non work friends. Willing to see where things go beyond that.
My politics are center-left. If you're a Trump supporter, MAGA, or Q, don't waste your time and move along.
Age: 62, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA
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I'm a married man, and I'm here to connect with others who share my interests and passions. I thrive
on an active lifestyle and enjoy outdoor activities such as camping, hiking, dirt biking, and weightlifting. I'm seeking like-minded men who share these interests. It's crucial to me that you possess honesty, dependability, and integrity, but most importantly, be true to yourself. Let's embark on this journey together and see where it takes us.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends with a man in Houston, Texas, USA
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Wanted Bottom Man
I am 69, six foot two inches, 220 lbs., salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, beard, slightly hairy body, eight inches cut d/d/s free, nudist, top, discreet.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
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Outdoors guy here, total jeans and boots too, blue collar by profession also. Grew up with farming
and to a lesser extent livestock also. Athletic build and clean cut, not "out," so looking for the same. Simply put, I'm not the typical gay guy, I work hard most days and get dirty and want a man that's also not afraid to get dirty. Down to earth and laid back and can tend to be somewhat of a homebody. Love to find a cowboy to go to rodeos with, camping and just do things in general. You could not be too cowboy for me, love cattlemen, horsemen and rodeo cowboys. Guys that are not afraid to get dirty especially their boots are my type for sure!! Looking to start as friends and hopefully it will take off from there. Laid back and down to earth...if this sounds good please hit me up! Pics coming soon!
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Nebraska, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my
own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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6’5” top
220 lbs
Biker, Cowboy, Camper, Rodeoer
Age: 56, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Davenport, Iowa, USA
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Kind, caring, loving person who's looking for the same.
Age: 52, male, looking for a man in Nebraska, USA
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Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
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Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
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I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site
which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. That probably means someone who is retired, or can work from anywhere. I have fiber optic internet. Generally interested in men about forty and up. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
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