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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA 
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HARD TO DO THIS.. WITH SO MANY COMING OUT ALL THE TIME. WHY DO THEY WANT ME TO COME OUT? I DON'T
NEED TO COME OUT... IT WOULD DESTROY MY WIFE, MY MARRIAGE, MY REPUTATION AT CHURCH, MY FAMILY. I MUST ALWAYS REMAIN IN THE CLOSET
Age: 67, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA 
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Looking for friends into winter gear like coveralls and Carhartts. I consider myself a side.
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA 
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Seek Fit Masculine Non-Scene Friend/Activity Companion -
I'd like to find a fit, single, financially independent, Caucasian, Latin or Middle Eastern masculine everyday guy between 30 and 55 years of age for activity sharing and an ongoing friend with benefits type of friendship. Someone to hang out with semi-regularly. A good friend...with benefits. Someone who shares my passion for sports, camping/RVing, ocean cruises and more. Nothing too serious or intense, though. Just someone who shares a similar desire for occasional companionship, casual activities and quality relaxing good times together both inside and outside the bedroom. Open to more later if we really connect. And open to someone who lives outside my local area...within a reasonable distance.
I'm 56, 5'10', 276, hairy chest and body, brown hair, green eyes and a trim S&P beard. I've been described as bear, cub, dad, husky, chub or all the above. I'm an affectionate, masculine guy who enjoys kissing and cuddling with another affectionate, masculine guy.
In my free time I like watching sports (huge NFL fan), camping, RVing, home projects, playing pickleball, cooking, cruises, weekend trips, day drives, movie nights and quiet times and good conversation sharing a few beers or a bottle of wine with a handsome, masculine man.
Seeking single, fit masculine only please. Sorry, but not typically drawn to married/partnered, bottoms or big guys.
Please note that I am not interested in quick sex hookups, massage guys or those looking for generous men or someone to support them.
I Am typically attracted to the following:
Caucasian, Hispanic, Latin or Middle Eastern men
Medium to fit athletic builds
Good conversationalist
Ages 30-55
Furry or smooth
Masculine
Intimate
Affectionate
Creative between the sheets
Cuddler
Spontaneous
Short hair/goatee's
Sports fans
Likes Camping/RVing
Ocean Cruises
Fan of other outdoor activities (hiking, hanging by the pool, etc.)
Safe sex
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Sacramento, California, USA 
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Sexual orientation isn't important to me - cowboys and horsemen in full gear (Boots, Spurs, Chaps)
is my turn on. Also get aroused by sweat and mansmells. Not after quickies or hookups.
Age: 71, male, looking for a man in Dallas, Texas, USA 
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Developed great friendships with those men who are closeted.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Simpsonville, South Carolina, USA 
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i am a closeted gay because i have 4 children who are gorwn and have 10 grand children who dont know
i loke men
Age: 70, male, looking for a man in Riverton, Riverton, Wyoming, USA
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Married and closeted.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in San Jose, San José, COSTA RICA 
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I’m in the closet
Age: 45, transgender, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Penzance, Cornwall, UK 
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I was in the closet for 30+ years. I know what its like, the isolation, deception, covering your
tracks. I honor every man's journey in accepting and celebrating his true nature, however he chooses to show it.
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Nw Greensboro, Greensboro, North Carolina, USA
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I am an openly gay erotica writer. I am a top, and enjoy being on the controlling end of things. I
am currently not looking for IRL encounters - what I am looking for is: conversation about your secrets, your fantasies, your real-life experiences that have shaped you to be who you are today. I am generally more interested in those who are still closeted, as I am curious about the things that keep them there. I have been told I am a good listener, and I have mentored youngsters (18-35ish) who are looking for advice in life matters. So if you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you as well.
I know plenty about those closeted straights in the city - but I'd like to know what the differences are for you in your current community/situation. I don't judge, I am just interested to learn about you and your circumstances.
For further interest, my biggest fetishes are intoxication (seeing a man I find attractive very drunk is extremely arousing to me), secrecy (hence the closeted aspect on your end), and control (because of the dominating factor). I have profiles on Recon and Fetlife as well - ask me for my handles there if interested.
If you are still reading, drop me a line. Your story might inspire a chapter in my next book - but nothing we discuss will be published, unless you give me authorization to do so.
Take care, boys.
Tez.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends with a man in Orlando, Florida, USA
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I'm willing to meet new people of this group even more than just friends like a relationship or so
but I got to see what we have in common.
Age: 25, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Texas, USA
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Want to meet a bigger married gentleman for excusions.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Denver, Colorado, USA 
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Closeted gay bear, single, looking for encounters leading to LTR
Age: 74, male, looking for a man in North, Charlotte, North Carolina, USA 
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am a gay closet transgender woman looking for a friendship
Age: 66, transgender, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in Fargo, North Dakota, USA 
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Top looking for discrete bottoms for regular hookups
Age: 38, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Lawndale, Los Angeles County, California, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
Age: 67, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
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Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA 
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Stevens Point Wi, Rural Area, Wisconsin, USA
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Easy going, laid back country boy here looking for similar. Be nice to find a guy that likes the wide open spaces, horses, cattle, dogs and other livestock.
Age: 66, male, looking for a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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Country boy looking for a cowboy. Enjoy being outside sports, rodeo, riding horses.
Age: 36, male, looking for friends in Rural Area, Arkansas, USA
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I can travel to you... or host in Palm Springs, CA
I love history, geography, art, languages, to read and to travel,
Also, into hiking, skiing, swimming. camping, out doors
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA
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Howdy
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 72, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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In the mean time...On The Road Again...Off To The Mountains...Gone Fly Fishing: I am kept busy
working on my landscaping and my home. There is always something to do. I'm clean cut and well groomed but don't mind getting my hands dirty. I'm told I clean up well. I am a honest, trustworthy, healthy, HIV Neg, loyal, sincere, and monogamous. I have integrity and I'm easy going and looking for the same in a companion. Pretty much an all around nice guy. I still like to do moderate to difficult hiking, trail riding, fly fishing, and kayaking or canoeing. I like rodeos, country western dancing & 2 stepping. First date, sharing a meal, good conversation, and getting to know one another. Maybe a little slow dancing, or a simple quite evening on the patio. We could take a long day trek into nature, walk along a river and skip some stones. Looking to relocate for the right man or location, quite rural area would be nice, another state, town, or country. For now, I'm heading out to embark on my adventures. Mr. Right is out there somewhere. Maybe I will run into him or him into me. Maybe he will be the one to show me around where ever I might be traveling. You just never know.
It is better to be alone than with the wrong man. For a LTR = hard work, monogamy = Life Partner = loyal honesty, and good communications between us. A relationship were we have each others back, Working towards; "I can trust you with my life." Seems hard to find that kind of man these days, but maybe not. Until then, I'm flying solo and looking to make some new friends out there. Take Care and Be Safe
Age: 69, male, looking for friends with a man in New Mexico, USA
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iso of a man 45+ for friendship and relationship. interested in dating and companionship.
not interested in guys just looking for NSA stuff.
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA
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It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
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Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
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NEW
I’m a nice guy looking for another.
Age: 47, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Los Angeles, California, USA
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Looking for friends, and maybe more. I’m looking for other masculine, discreet, straight acting
country. Men are like-minded for friends and possibly relationship. Hit me up to chat and ask any questions you may have.
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Beach County, Florida, USA
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Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my
own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Married over 45 years, Christian, g0y, decent, clean, conservative. Looking for a lasting
friendship, not just hookups. I don't consider myself that good looking, but I have been told by some men that I am. I have also been told that I am a good kisser. I enjoy that kind of intimate feeling with a man. Especially if I find him attractive, but also if we just connect as friends where we have respect and affection for each other. I like to hike and would love a hiking buddy. I realize that I am very limited being married and any potential friend must be kept a secret. My marriage has been sexless since 1988 and I have only been meeting men since 2015.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA
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Wanted Bottom Man
I am 69, six foot two inches, 220 lbs., salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, beard, slightly hairy body, eight inches cut d/d/s free, nudist, top, discreet.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
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Recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish. Ethnicity:
"Scotch-Irish" (or whatever it was in Tennessee) on father's side, English/Flemish on mother's. Sexual mindset: Kinky. Religion: Protestant, somewhere between Episcopalian and Methodist. Politics: liberal who doesn't understand why believing in the equality of all under the law regardless of race, creed, gender, etc., a flexible and nonpartisan administrative state, a tax code progressive enough to discourage vast concentration of wealth, and vigorous and farsighted environmental and energy policies necessitates being a goddamn wimp who won't even defend his own positions let alone his life or property. Aesthetics: all over the place, as you would expect from someone whose favorite novel is Joyce's Ulysses and whose favorite filmmaker is John Ford. (And I don't even have the excuse of being Irish!) Frugal. Keeps appointments. Affectionate. Enthusiastic cook and overeater. Strictly social drinker. Non-smoker, though has considered taking up the pipe for the sheer looks of it. Swears. Can ride a little (Western, of course). Can host.
Age: 65, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA
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Howdy, country guy, 6ft, 210 lbs, height/weight proportionate, love the country/western lifestyle
and culture, looking to meet the same, age UNDER 60, for friendship, fun, dates and could be open to more when the right guy comes along. I'm an easy going, friendly, approachable guy with a wide variety of interests, including the gym, love country music and dancing, rodeos and much more. Love a guy who is masculine, friendly with a good sense of humour. A guy wearing his boots and spurs is hot! I'm sexually a bottom so I'm looking to meet another single vers or top man. If you liked what you read, shoot me a message. Love to travel and recently returned from the Calgary Stampede, will be in the Toronto area in October 2025. Sorry guys but no pics, no response!
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA
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I've always loved the country, Grew up on a big farm-Big family, Love being outdoors. Woods-Streams-Animals.
Being free. But love to hold a man close once in awhile-In boots-chaps.levis - And that manly scent. Just love life.
And will always be young and spirited. And the men must be in boots ,And be a boot lover as I am.
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Stevens Point Wi, Rural Area, Wisconsin, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next