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HARD TO DO THIS.. WITH SO MANY COMING OUT ALL THE TIME. WHY DO THEY WANT ME TO COME OUT? I DON'T
NEED TO COME OUT... IT WOULD DESTROY MY WIFE, MY MARRIAGE, MY REPUTATION AT CHURCH, MY FAMILY. I MUST ALWAYS REMAIN IN THE CLOSET
Age: 68, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA 
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA 
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I am a marrieed bi-guy who is looking for other guy who can be very discreet for some male to male
fun. I am 6'1 " 180lbs. light brown hair, blue eyes ,cut average dick. I am D and D free you must be also.
Age: 75, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Amarillo, Texas, USA 
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Developed great friendships with those men who are closeted.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Simpsonville, South Carolina, USA 
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Looking for friends into winter gear like coveralls and Carhartts. I consider myself a side.
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA 
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Seek Fit Masculine Non-Scene Friend/Activity Companion -
I'd like to find a fit, single, financially independent, Caucasian, Latin or Middle Eastern masculine everyday guy between 30 and 55 years of age for activity sharing and an ongoing friend with benefits type of friendship. Someone to hang out with semi-regularly. A good friend...with benefits. Someone who shares my passion for sports, camping/RVing, ocean cruises and more. Nothing too serious or intense, though. Just someone who shares a similar desire for occasional companionship, casual activities and quality relaxing good times together both inside and outside the bedroom. Open to more later if we really connect. And open to someone who lives outside my local area...within a reasonable distance.
I'm 56, 5'10', 276, hairy chest and body, brown hair, green eyes and a trim S&P beard. I've been described as bear, cub, dad, husky, chub or all the above. I'm an affectionate, masculine guy who enjoys kissing and cuddling with another affectionate, masculine guy.
In my free time I like watching sports (huge NFL fan), camping, RVing, home projects, playing pickleball, cooking, cruises, weekend trips, day drives, movie nights and quiet times and good conversation sharing a few beers or a bottle of wine with a handsome, masculine man.
Seeking single, fit masculine only please. Sorry, but not typically drawn to married/partnered, bottoms or big guys.
Please note that I am not interested in quick sex hookups, massage guys or those looking for generous men or someone to support them.
I Am typically attracted to the following:
Caucasian, Hispanic, Latin or Middle Eastern men
Medium to fit athletic builds
Good conversationalist
Ages 30-55
Furry or smooth
Masculine
Intimate
Affectionate
Creative between the sheets
Cuddler
Spontaneous
Short hair/goatee's
Sports fans
Likes Camping/RVing
Ocean Cruises
Fan of other outdoor activities (hiking, hanging by the pool, etc.)
Safe sex
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Sacramento, California, USA 
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Sexual orientation isn't important to me - cowboys and horsemen in full gear (Boots, Spurs, Chaps)
is my turn on. Also get aroused by sweat and mansmells. Not after quickies or hookups.
Age: 71, male, looking for a man in Dallas, Texas, USA 
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i am a closeted gay because i have 4 children who are gorwn and have 10 grand children who dont know
i loke men
Age: 70, male, looking for a man in Riverton, Riverton, Wyoming, USA
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Married and closeted.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in San Jose, San José, COSTA RICA 
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I’m in the closet
Age: 45, transgender, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Penzance, Cornwall, UK 
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I was in the closet for 30+ years. I know what its like, the isolation, deception, covering your
tracks. I honor every man's journey in accepting and celebrating his true nature, however he chooses to show it.
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Nw Greensboro, Greensboro, North Carolina, USA
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I am an openly gay erotica writer. I am a top, and enjoy being on the controlling end of things. I
am currently not looking for IRL encounters - what I am looking for is: conversation about your secrets, your fantasies, your real-life experiences that have shaped you to be who you are today. I am generally more interested in those who are still closeted, as I am curious about the things that keep them there. I have been told I am a good listener, and I have mentored youngsters (18-35ish) who are looking for advice in life matters. So if you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you as well.
I know plenty about those closeted straights in the city - but I'd like to know what the differences are for you in your current community/situation. I don't judge, I am just interested to learn about you and your circumstances.
For further interest, my biggest fetishes are intoxication (seeing a man I find attractive very drunk is extremely arousing to me), secrecy (hence the closeted aspect on your end), and control (because of the dominating factor). I have profiles on Recon and Fetlife as well - ask me for my handles there if interested.
If you are still reading, drop me a line. Your story might inspire a chapter in my next book - but nothing we discuss will be published, unless you give me authorization to do so.
Take care, boys.
Tez.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends with a man in Orlando, Florida, USA
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I'm willing to meet new people of this group even more than just friends like a relationship or so
but I got to see what we have in common.
Age: 25, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Texas, USA
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Want to meet a bigger married gentleman for excusions.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Denver, Colorado, USA 
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Closeted gay bear, single, looking for encounters leading to LTR
Age: 74, male, looking for a man in North, Charlotte, North Carolina, USA 
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am a gay closet transgender woman looking for a friendship
Age: 66, transgender, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in Fargo, North Dakota, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next
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Looking for real connection, passion, and a man to call mine.
About ME
I’m Michael (friends call me Mike), born under the fire sign of Scorpio—passionate, adventurous, and always seeking something meaningful. I’m 6`0 ", versatile, caring, and I take pride in living a life filled with love, honesty, and laughter.
By profession, I’m an interior decorator working globally, creating beautiful spaces for both private and commercial homes. Creativity flows into every part of my life—I love designing, traveling, meeting new people, and sharing experiences that bring joy.
I’m romantic by nature. I believe in little things—good morning messages, gentle touches, late-night talks, and being there for someone no matter what. I want more than just casual fun; I’m here because I believe love is still out there, and I want to find a man who will be my partner, my confidant, and my best friend.
What I’m Looking For
I’m looking for someone kind, intelligent, passionate, and genuine. A man who isn’t afraid to love deeply, who values honesty, respect, and affection. Whether we’re exploring new places, sharing a quiet evening at home, or building dreams together—I want a connection that feels real.
If you’re adventurous, affectionate, and believe in true connection, let’s talk. Life is too short to hold back on love.
Age: 44, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in New York, New York, USA
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I enjoy creating art, the outdoors, the rugged lifestyle, etc.
Age: 37, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
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Howdy
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA
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Well, let me start by saying I am a born and raised Albertan. I am just your average ginger guy. I
am career-driven and more of a suburban-rural type of guy. I tend to like the simpler things in life and like to take things as they come. I have no great expectations on dating sites but in small hopes of meeting similar-minded dudes with the same interests and drive as me.
I am for one not much for the gay scene, I rather be camping and hiking or hunting or fishing or 4X4ing or Quading, and boating even going horseback riding and checking out rodeos. I love checking out the Auto or Outdoor shows along with the home and garden and big Motorbike shows. I am always down for random road trips from the mountains to the countryside to Kelowna to having a pint on a patio somewhere. I do watch hockey and some other sports, to just a simple horseback ride. I love country music and rock mainly as well 80s. As for shows I love to watch The Walking Dead or Netflix
Age: 46, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Carstairs, Alberta, CANADA
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Married over 45 years, Christian, g0y, decent, clean, conservative. Looking for a lasting
friendship, not just hookups. I don't consider myself that good looking, but I have been told by some men that I am. I have also been told that I am a good kisser. I enjoy that kind of intimate feeling with a man. Especially if I find him attractive, but also if we just connect as friends where we have respect and affection for each other. I like to hike and would love a hiking buddy. I realize that I am very limited being married and any potential friend must be kept a secret. My marriage has been sexless since 1988 and I have only been meeting men since 2015.
Age: 68, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA
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It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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Bottom looking for a short term encounters. Into water sports, bottoming, oral. I also enjoy
3-ways.
Age: 60, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Knoxville, Tennessee, USA
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A true country boy.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Shawnee, Oklahoma, USA
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I've always loved the country, Grew up on a big farm-Big family, Love being outdoors. Woods-Streams-Animals.
Being free. But love to hold a man close once in awhile-In boots-chaps.levis - And that manly scent. Just love life.
And will always be young and spirited. And the men must be in boots ,And be a boot lover as I am.
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Stevens Point Wi, Rural Area, Wisconsin, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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Wanted Bottom Man
I am 69, six foot two inches, 220 lbs., salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, beard, slightly hairy body, eight inches cut d/d/s free, nudist, top, discreet.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
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Looking to meet other white or latin males for good times and maybe more and be pretty HWP, not
interested in fem or over weight guys. Willing to relocate for that special guy. I am pretty middle of the road politically. Don't be shy drop me a line for any questions and such.
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Birmingham, Alabama, USA
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I can travel to you... or host in Palm Springs, CA
I love history, geography, art, languages, to read and to travel,
Also, into hiking, skiing, swimming. camping, out doors
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA
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Looking for friends, and maybe more. I’m looking for other masculine, discreet, straight acting
country. Men are like-minded for friends and possibly relationship. Hit me up to chat and ask any questions you may have.
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Beach County, Florida, USA
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Looking for guys that would not mind talking from time to time
And form a friendship and maybe more
Age: 28, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA
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Looking for a man who is not afraid of who they are, someone who knows how to be, and knows the
meaning of a true southern gentleman and a true cowboy. That is a word of honor, and they can hold their word up to honor.
Someone who is not afraid to show their face or hide behind a body shot or a pair of boots, not interested in going out with a headless person or pair of boots. For I will not respond to either of these.
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Northside, Tampa, Florida, USA
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I'm just looking to meet interesting folks who like to bust some while booted. Not really expecting
much at all. I'm an office worker. Well traveled and always like to study. Feel free to chat.
I can be found on Planet Romeo as well. I'm more accessible there.
Age: 49, male, looking for friends with a man in Illinois, USA
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I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site
which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. That probably means someone who is retired, or can work from anywhere. I have fiber optic internet. Generally interested in men about forty and up. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
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