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HARD TO DO THIS.. WITH SO MANY COMING OUT ALL THE TIME. WHY DO THEY WANT ME TO COME OUT? I DON'T
NEED TO COME OUT... IT WOULD DESTROY MY WIFE, MY MARRIAGE, MY REPUTATION AT CHURCH, MY FAMILY. I MUST ALWAYS REMAIN IN THE CLOSET
Age: 67, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA 
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Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) or intimate encounters with a man in Spring Hill, Tennessee, USA 
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Looking for friends into winter gear like coveralls and Carhartts. I consider myself a side.
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA 
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Seek Fit Masculine Non-Scene Friend/Activity Companion -
I'd like to find a fit, single, financially independent, Caucasian, Latin or Middle Eastern masculine everyday guy between 30 and 55 years of age for activity sharing and an ongoing friend with benefits type of friendship. Someone to hang out with semi-regularly. A good friend...with benefits. Someone who shares my passion for sports, camping/RVing, ocean cruises and more. Nothing too serious or intense, though. Just someone who shares a similar desire for occasional companionship, casual activities and quality relaxing good times together both inside and outside the bedroom. Open to more later if we really connect. And open to someone who lives outside my local area...within a reasonable distance.
I'm 56, 5'10', 276, hairy chest and body, brown hair, green eyes and a trim S&P beard. I've been described as bear, cub, dad, husky, chub or all the above. I'm an affectionate, masculine guy who enjoys kissing and cuddling with another affectionate, masculine guy.
In my free time I like watching sports (huge NFL fan), camping, RVing, home projects, playing pickleball, cooking, cruises, weekend trips, day drives, movie nights and quiet times and good conversation sharing a few beers or a bottle of wine with a handsome, masculine man.
Seeking single, fit masculine only please. Sorry, but not typically drawn to married/partnered, bottoms or big guys.
Please note that I am not interested in quick sex hookups, massage guys or those looking for generous men or someone to support them.
I Am typically attracted to the following:
Caucasian, Hispanic, Latin or Middle Eastern men
Medium to fit athletic builds
Good conversationalist
Ages 30-55
Furry or smooth
Masculine
Intimate
Affectionate
Creative between the sheets
Cuddler
Spontaneous
Short hair/goatee's
Sports fans
Likes Camping/RVing
Ocean Cruises
Fan of other outdoor activities (hiking, hanging by the pool, etc.)
Safe sex
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Sacramento, California, USA 
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Sexual orientation isn't important to me - cowboys and horsemen in full gear (Boots, Spurs, Chaps)
is my turn on. Also get aroused by sweat and mansmells. Not after quickies or hookups.
Age: 71, male, looking for a man in Dallas, Texas, USA 
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Developed great friendships with those men who are closeted.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Simpsonville, South Carolina, USA 
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i am a closeted gay because i have 4 children who are gorwn and have 10 grand children who dont know
i loke men
Age: 70, male, looking for a man in Riverton, Riverton, Wyoming, USA 
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Masculine, discreet
Age: 55, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in New York, New York, USA 
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Married and closeted.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in San Jose, San José, COSTA RICA 
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This describes me perfectly
Age: 37, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Georgia, USA
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I was in the closet for 30+ years. I know what its like, the isolation, deception, covering your
tracks. I honor every man's journey in accepting and celebrating his true nature, however he chooses to show it.
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Nw Greensboro, Greensboro, North Carolina, USA 
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I am not closeted, but I live in an area where there are many. Wouldn't mind being a contact for
them
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Stanstead (Ville), Memphrémagog, Québec, Estrie, CANADA 
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Poeple who can be normal in public, but behind closed doors, we can act who we really are.
Age: 66, male, looking for a man in Rural Area, Wisconsin, USA
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I am an openly gay erotica writer. I am a top, and enjoy being on the controlling end of things. I
am currently not looking for IRL encounters - what I am looking for is: conversation about your secrets, your fantasies, your real-life experiences that have shaped you to be who you are today. I am generally more interested in those who are still closeted, as I am curious about the things that keep them there. I have been told I am a good listener, and I have mentored youngsters (18-35ish) who are looking for advice in life matters. So if you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you as well.
I know plenty about those closeted straights in the city - but I'd like to know what the differences are for you in your current community/situation. I don't judge, I am just interested to learn about you and your circumstances.
For further interest, my biggest fetishes are intoxication (seeing a man I find attractive very drunk is extremely arousing to me), secrecy (hence the closeted aspect on your end), and control (because of the dominating factor). I have profiles on Recon and Fetlife as well - ask me for my handles there if interested.
If you are still reading, drop me a line. Your story might inspire a chapter in my next book - but nothing we discuss will be published, unless you give me authorization to do so.
Take care, boys.
Tez.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends with a man in Orlando, Florida, USA
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I'm willing to meet new people of this group even more than just friends like a relationship or so
but I got to see what we have in common.
Age: 24, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Texas, USA 
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Top looking for discrete bottoms for regular hookups
Age: 38, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Lawndale, Los Angeles County, California, USA 
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looking for farmers, ranchers, coyboys, truckers, closeted, curious
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Lehi, Salt Lake City, Utah, USA 
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I just want to meet someone who is interested in a possible long-term relationship. I am ready for
a chance at love.
Age: 53, male, looking for a man in Galleria, Houston, Texas, USA 
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Age: 67, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA
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Married over 45 years, Christian, g0y, decent, clean, conservative. Looking for a lasting
friendship, not just hookups. I don't consider myself that good looking, but I have been told by some men that I am. I have also been told that I am a good kisser. I enjoy that kind of intimate feeling with a man. Especially if I find him attractive, but also if we just connect as friends where we have respect and affection for each other. I like to hike and would love a hiking buddy. I realize that I am very limited being married and any potential friend must be kept a secret. My marriage has been sexless since 1988 and I have only been meeting men since 2015.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA
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It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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fetishist for jeans, belts, dress shoes, suit and tie, spanking... looking for friends or more with
same interests
Looking for fun on cam with guys dressed up too
Age: 49, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in La Ciotat, Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur, FRANCE
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Moved to TN. In 2006 n love the south n country lifestyle.booted guys r so sexy n manly.huge PBR guy
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) or intimate encounters with a man in Spring Hill, Tennessee, USA
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I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site
which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. That probably means someone who is retired, or can work from anywhere. I have fiber optic internet. Generally interested in men about forty and up. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
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Age: 76, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
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Howdy, country guy, 6ft, 210 lbs, height/weight proportionate, love the country/western lifestyle
and culture, looking to meet the same, age UNDER 60, for friendship, fun, dates and could be open to more when the right guy comes along. I'm an easy going, friendly, approachable guy with a wide variety of interests, including the gym, love country music and dancing, rodeos and much more. Love a guy who is masculine, friendly with a good sense of humour. A guy wearing his boots and spurs is hot! I'm sexually a bottom so I'm looking to meet another single vers or top man. If you liked what you read, shoot me a message. Love to travel and recently returned from the Calgary Stampede, will be in the Toronto area in October 2025. Sorry guys but no pics, no response!
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA
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In the mean time...On The Road Again...Off To The Mountains...Gone Fly Fishing... I am kept busy
working on my landscaping and my home. There is always something to do. I'm clean cut and well groomed but don't mind getting my hands dirty. I'm told I clean up well. I am a honest, trustworthy, healthy, HIV Neg, loyal, sincere, and monogamous. I have integrity and I'm easy going and looking for the same in a companion. Pretty much an all around nice guy. I still like to do moderate to difficult hiking, trail riding, fly fishing, and kayaking or canoeing. I like rodeos, country western dancing & 2 stepping. First date, sharing a meal, good conversation, and getting to know one another. Maybe a little slow dancing, or a simple quite evening on the patio. We could take a long day trek into nature, walk along a river and skip some stones. Looking to relocate for the right man or location, quite rural area would be nice, another state, town, or country. For now, I'm heading out to embark on my adventures. Mr. Right is out there somewhere. Maybe I will run into him or him into me. Maybe he will be the one to show me around where ever I might be traveling. You just never know.
It is better to be alone than with the wrong man. For a LTR = hard work, monogamy = Life Partner = loyal honesty, and good communications between us. A relationship were we have each others back, Working towards; "I can trust you with my life." Seems hard to find that kind of man these days, but maybe not. Until then, I'm flying solo and looking to make some new friends out there. Take Care and Be Safe
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in New Mexico, USA
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I am a retiered military man.Im a single outdoors guy im looking for friends ,...I
fish,hike,camp,hunt, ride horses,,,4x4ing up in the mountains.you must like being outdoors,Im a cowboy I drink , smoke curse i like bars and pool,I dont date fem men.don't like it?dont message me.not interested in 3 ways or groups. Looking for a guy to hang out with.
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in T Or C, New Mexico, USA
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I reject the "Gay" Lifestyle, the "Gay" Flag, the "Gay" political agenda. PERIOD
I am a man who likes men.
Looking for the rural life with one or more men who reject modern society and don't mind chopping wood for heat or driving 2 hours to the nearest big box store.
Looking to retire in the next few years, but until then I have started working 100% remote so I can relocate anywhere (where there's no state income tax, that is). Figure I should find a place in the country with Star Link and work and flesh out my retirement place with the niceties while I can afford it. Anyone want to join me?
The ideal place for me to retire would be Fort Davis, TX on the Davis Mountains; a few acres, single/double wide mobile home, sheds turned into an office and/or tack room, a barn, solar power with battery back up and a rain catchment system. A garden and a few fruit/nut trees and a few chickens. Living as self sufficiently as possible, having outside work to do to stay healthy and in shape and being outdoors. Knowing that friendship and companionship lasts while sex fades, keeps me focused on finding a simple life with like minded men.
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Austin, Texas, USA
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Wanted Bottom Man
I am 69, six foot two inches, 220 lbs., salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, beard, slightly hairy body, eight inches cut d/d/s free, nudist, top, discreet.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
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No hassles hayseed cowboy here. Easy to please. No drama, no strings, fun times.
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Age: 62, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Texas, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 72, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
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Looking for friends, and maybe more. I’m looking for other masculine, discreet, straight acting
country. Men are like-minded for friends and possibly relationship. Hit me up to chat and ask any questions you may have.
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Beach County, Florida, USA
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Well, let me start by saying I am a born and raised Albertan. I am just your average ginger guy. I
am career-driven and more of a suburban-rural type of guy. I tend to like the simpler things in life and like to take things as they come. I have no great expectations on dating sites but in small hopes of meeting similar-minded dudes with the same interests and drive as me.
I am for one not much for the gay scene, I rather be camping and hiking or hunting or fishing or 4X4ing or Quading, and boating even going horseback riding and checking out rodeos. I love checking out the Auto or Outdoor shows along with the home and garden and big Motorbike shows. I am always down for random road trips from the mountains to the countryside to Kelowna to having a pint on a patio somewhere. I do watch hockey and some other sports, to just a simple horseback ride. I love country music and rock mainly as well 80s. As for shows I love to watch The Walking Dead or Netflix
Age: 46, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Carstairs, Alberta, CANADA
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Not a cowboy, but I’ve done a lot if the work. I can ride a horse and work a ranch.
Looking for cowboys, rednecks, etc… to be buddies with (to start anyway).
Age: 59, male, looking for a man in Billings, Montana, USA
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I'm just looking to meet interesting folks who like to bust some while booted. Not really expecting
much at all. I'm an office worker. Well traveled and always like to study. Feel free to chat.
I can be found on Planet Romeo as well. I'm more accessible there.
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