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Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) or intimate encounters with a man in Spring Hill, Tennessee, USA 
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HARD TO DO THIS.. WITH SO MANY COMING OUT ALL THE TIME. WHY DO THEY WANT ME TO COME OUT? I DON'T
NEED TO COME OUT... IT WOULD DESTROY MY WIFE, MY MARRIAGE, MY REPUTATION AT CHURCH, MY FAMILY. I MUST ALWAYS REMAIN IN THE CLOSET
Age: 68, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA 
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I am a marrieed bi-guy who is looking for other guy who can be very discreet for some male to male
fun. I am 6'1 " 180lbs. light brown hair, blue eyes ,cut average dick. I am D and D free you must be also.
Age: 75, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Amarillo, Texas, USA 
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Developed great friendships with those men who are closeted.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Simpsonville, South Carolina, USA 
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Looking for friends into winter gear like coveralls and Carhartts. I consider myself a side.
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA 
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Seek Fit Masculine Non-Scene Friend/Activity Companion -
I'd like to find a fit, single, financially independent, Caucasian, Latin or Middle Eastern masculine everyday guy between 30 and 55 years of age for activity sharing and an ongoing friend with benefits type of friendship. Someone to hang out with semi-regularly. A good friend...with benefits. Someone who shares my passion for sports, camping/RVing, ocean cruises and more. Nothing too serious or intense, though. Just someone who shares a similar desire for occasional companionship, casual activities and quality relaxing good times together both inside and outside the bedroom. Open to more later if we really connect. And open to someone who lives outside my local area...within a reasonable distance.
I'm 56, 5'10', 276, hairy chest and body, brown hair, green eyes and a trim S&P beard. I've been described as bear, cub, dad, husky, chub or all the above. I'm an affectionate, masculine guy who enjoys kissing and cuddling with another affectionate, masculine guy.
In my free time I like watching sports (huge NFL fan), camping, RVing, home projects, playing pickleball, cooking, cruises, weekend trips, day drives, movie nights and quiet times and good conversation sharing a few beers or a bottle of wine with a handsome, masculine man.
Seeking single, fit masculine only please. Sorry, but not typically drawn to married/partnered, bottoms or big guys.
Please note that I am not interested in quick sex hookups, massage guys or those looking for generous men or someone to support them.
I Am typically attracted to the following:
Caucasian, Hispanic, Latin or Middle Eastern men
Medium to fit athletic builds
Good conversationalist
Ages 30-55
Furry or smooth
Masculine
Intimate
Affectionate
Creative between the sheets
Cuddler
Spontaneous
Short hair/goatee's
Sports fans
Likes Camping/RVing
Ocean Cruises
Fan of other outdoor activities (hiking, hanging by the pool, etc.)
Safe sex
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Sacramento, California, USA 
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Sexual orientation isn't important to me - cowboys and horsemen in full gear (Boots, Spurs, Chaps)
is my turn on. Also get aroused by sweat and mansmells. Not after quickies or hookups.
Age: 71, male, looking for a man in Dallas, Texas, USA 
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i am a closeted gay because i have 4 children who are gorwn and have 10 grand children who dont know
i loke men
Age: 70, male, looking for a man in Riverton, Riverton, Wyoming, USA 
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Masculine, discreet
Age: 55, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in New York, New York, USA 
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Married and closeted.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in San Jose, San José, COSTA RICA 
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This describes me perfectly
Age: 37, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Georgia, USA
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I was in the closet for 30+ years. I know what its like, the isolation, deception, covering your
tracks. I honor every man's journey in accepting and celebrating his true nature, however he chooses to show it.
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Nw Greensboro, Greensboro, North Carolina, USA 
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I am not closeted, but I live in an area where there are many. Wouldn't mind being a contact for
them
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Stanstead (Ville), Memphrémagog, Québec, Estrie, CANADA 
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Poeple who can be normal in public, but behind closed doors, we can act who we really are.
Age: 66, male, looking for a man in Rural Area, Wisconsin, USA
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I am an openly gay erotica writer. I am a top, and enjoy being on the controlling end of things. I
am currently not looking for IRL encounters - what I am looking for is: conversation about your secrets, your fantasies, your real-life experiences that have shaped you to be who you are today. I am generally more interested in those who are still closeted, as I am curious about the things that keep them there. I have been told I am a good listener, and I have mentored youngsters (18-35ish) who are looking for advice in life matters. So if you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you as well.
I know plenty about those closeted straights in the city - but I'd like to know what the differences are for you in your current community/situation. I don't judge, I am just interested to learn about you and your circumstances.
For further interest, my biggest fetishes are intoxication (seeing a man I find attractive very drunk is extremely arousing to me), secrecy (hence the closeted aspect on your end), and control (because of the dominating factor). I have profiles on Recon and Fetlife as well - ask me for my handles there if interested.
If you are still reading, drop me a line. Your story might inspire a chapter in my next book - but nothing we discuss will be published, unless you give me authorization to do so.
Take care, boys.
Tez.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends with a man in Orlando, Florida, USA
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I'm willing to meet new people of this group even more than just friends like a relationship or so
but I got to see what we have in common.
Age: 25, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Texas, USA 
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Top looking for discrete bottoms for regular hookups
Age: 38, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Lawndale, Los Angeles County, California, USA 
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looking for farmers, ranchers, coyboys, truckers, closeted, curious
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Lehi, Salt Lake City, Utah, USA 
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I just want to meet someone who is interested in a possible long-term relationship. I am ready for
a chance at love.
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Age: 54, male, looking for friends with a man in Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
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Age: 68, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA
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I'm a Christian Man...looking for some special friends and soul-mates.
Born and raised in dairy farming country of Wisconsin. That is my humble roots. Love all things Nature. Adventuresome Woodsman, hunter, explorer.
I like working out with weights to stay muscular, fit and strong. 6'4" 230, 50" chest, 34" waist, 19.5" arms, 7% body fat, no man-scaping (hairy where Men should be hairy).
I don't smoke, chew or vape and not into heavy drinking or recreational drugs. I eat clean and Organic for the most part.
Living in NM now.
Age: 54, male, looking for friends with a man in Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
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I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site
which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. That probably means someone who is retired, or can work from anywhere. I have fiber optic internet. Generally interested in men about forty and up. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
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Age: 76, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
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Well, let me start by saying I am a born and raised Albertan. I am just your average ginger guy. I
am career-driven and more of a suburban-rural type of guy. I tend to like the simpler things in life and like to take things as they come. I have no great expectations on dating sites but in small hopes of meeting similar-minded dudes with the same interests and drive as me.
I am for one not much for the gay scene, I rather be camping and hiking or hunting or fishing or 4X4ing or Quading, and boating even going horseback riding and checking out rodeos. I love checking out the Auto or Outdoor shows along with the home and garden and big Motorbike shows. I am always down for random road trips from the mountains to the countryside to Kelowna to having a pint on a patio somewhere. I do watch hockey and some other sports, to just a simple horseback ride. I love country music and rock mainly as well 80s. As for shows I love to watch The Walking Dead or Netflix
Age: 46, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Carstairs, Alberta, CANADA
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It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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:) I'm kept busy working on my home and the landscaping. There is always something to do. I'm clean
cut and well groomed but don't mind getting my hands dirty. I like to cook and bake, rustic breads, cookies, scones, biscuits, Italian & New Mexico cuisine, Old Mexico dishes, Seafood, and sometimes old fashion down home country meals. Pretty much prepare 90% of my meals fresh from scratch, some organic, some not. But, Once and awhile I do like that rib-eye or green chile cheese burger on the grill. I am a avid hiker, easy to moderate mostly, and once in a while a more difficult treks. I tend to come home with rocks in my pockets. :) I like to trail riding now and then, fly fishing, kayaking or canoeing, and traveling around the western US and aboard. Our first date, sharing a meal, good conversation, and getting to know one another. Maybe a little slow dancing or a simple quite evening on the patio, maybe more. We could take a long day trek into nature. Walk along a river and skip some stones or climb a mountain? Looking to relocate for the right man or location, quite rural area would be nice, but not a deal breaker, another state, town, or country. For now, I'm heading out to embark on my adventures. Mr. Right is out there somewhere. Maybe I will run into him or him into me. Maybe he will be the one to show me around where ever I might be traveling. You just never know. ........."It is better to be alone than with the wrong man"..................... For a LTR = hard work, monogamy = Life Partner = loyal honesty, understanding, and good communications between us. A relationship were we have each others back, Working towards; "I can trust you with my life." Seems hard to find that kind of man these days, but maybe not. Until then, I'm flying solo and looking to make some new friends out there. Take Care and Be Safe
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in New Mexico, USA
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NEW
I am a nice guy i love cooking camping walking my dog and fishing i am 5ft6 175 ticklished i
am looking for someone who can be a best friend and lover someone with a great personality who is lovign carig honest and friendly and loves to have fun
Age: 51, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Fresno, California, USA
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Moved to TN. In 2006 n love the south n country lifestyle.booted guys r so sexy n manly.huge PBR guy
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) or intimate encounters with a man in Spring Hill, Tennessee, USA
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i am 5ft6 175 caucassin guy looking for a cowboy who is sweet honest caring loving who can be a
goodfriend or lover
Age: 51, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Fresno, California, USA
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Just a hard working guy, looking for other blue collar men, to hangout with and have a beer. Always happy to make new friends.
Age: 62, male, looking for a man in Halifax, Nova Scotia, CANADA
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Looking for friends, and maybe more. I’m looking for other masculine, discreet, straight acting
country. Men are like-minded for friends and possibly relationship. Hit me up to chat and ask any questions you may have.
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Beach County, Florida, USA
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I am a retiered military man.Im a single outdoors guy im looking for friends ,...I
fish,hike,camp,hunt, ride horses,,,4x4ing up in the mountains.you must like being outdoors,Im a cowboy I drink , smoke curse i like bars and pool,I dont date fem men.don't like it?dont message me.not interested in 3 ways or groups. Looking for a guy to hang out with.
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in T Or C, New Mexico, USA
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NEW
I am looking to meet someone who has the same interests as me and has things going for themselves.
I consider myself adventurous and love anything outdoors, traveling, cooking, being by the water, swimming, fishing, and hanging out with good friends. I'm also a professional musician outside of my day job in IT. I prefer cowboy men who are caring, funny, outgoing, and love going to do stuff.
Age: 50, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Houston, Texas, USA
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Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
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Howdy, im a single country guy, 6ft, 210 lbs, height/weight proportionate, love the country/western
lifestyle and culture, looking to meet the same for friendship, fun, dates and am open to a ltr when the right guy comes along. I have a wide variety of interests, including the gym, love country music and dancing, rodeos and much more. Love a guy who is masculine, tall friendly with a good sense of humour. No smokers please! A guy wearing his boots and spurs is hot! I'm sexually a bottom so I'm looking to meet another single vers or top man. I love to travel and will be in the Toronto area in October 2025 after getting back from the Calgary stampede. Hope to be back to Texas my favourite state.
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA
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Not a cowboy, but I’ve done a lot if the work. I can ride a horse and work a ranch.
Looking for cowboys, rednecks, etc… to be buddies with (to start anyway).
Age: 59, male, looking for a man in Billings, Montana, USA
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I'm very much keep to myself kind of person, don't like the huge crowds, prefer quiet and calm
spaces. I like someone who will acknowledge me, and share our lives together, someone who will know how to treat me well.
Age: 36, male, looking for a long term relationship with a man in San Marcos, Texas, USA
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Married over 45 years, Christian, g0y, decent, clean, conservative. Looking for a lasting
friendship, not just hookups. I don't consider myself that good looking, but I have been told by some men that I am. I have also been told that I am a good kisser. I enjoy that kind of intimate feeling with a man. Especially if I find him attractive, but also if we just connect as friends where we have respect and affection for each other. I like to hike and would love a hiking buddy. I realize that I am very limited being married and any potential friend must be kept a secret. My marriage has been sexless since 1988 and I have only been meeting men since 2015.
Age: 68, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA
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Wanted Bottom Man
I am 69, six foot two inches, 220 lbs., salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, beard, slightly hairy body, eight inches cut d/d/s free, nudist, top, discreet.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next