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HARD TO DO THIS.. WITH SO MANY COMING OUT ALL THE TIME. WHY DO THEY WANT ME TO COME OUT? I DON'T
NEED TO COME OUT... IT WOULD DESTROY MY WIFE, MY MARRIAGE, MY REPUTATION AT CHURCH, MY FAMILY. I MUST ALWAYS REMAIN IN THE CLOSET
Age: 67, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA 
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA 
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As I’ve growN beyond my struggles of knowing I am , I acknowledge the challenges of my time in
isolation and fear of being discovered. I could of used a few friends to confide in . I respect the need for privacy .
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in Cambria, San Luis Obispo County, California, USA 
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Seek Fit Masculine Non-Scene Friend/Activity Companion -
I'd like to find a fit, single, financially independent, Caucasian, Latin or Middle Eastern masculine everyday guy between 30 and 55 years of age for activity sharing and an ongoing friend with benefits type of friendship. Someone to hang out with semi-regularly. A good friend...with benefits. Someone who shares my passion for sports, camping/RVing, ocean cruises and more. Nothing too serious or intense, though. Just someone who shares a similar desire for occasional companionship, casual activities and quality relaxing good times together both inside and outside the bedroom. Open to more later if we really connect. And open to someone who lives outside my local area...within a reasonable distance.
I'm 56, 5'10', 276, hairy chest and body, brown hair, green eyes and a trim S&P beard. I've been described as bear, cub, dad, husky, chub or all the above. I'm an affectionate, masculine guy who enjoys kissing and cuddling with another affectionate, masculine guy.
In my free time I like watching sports (huge NFL fan), camping, RVing, home projects, playing pickleball, cooking, cruises, weekend trips, day drives, movie nights and quiet times and good conversation sharing a few beers or a bottle of wine with a handsome, masculine man.
Seeking single, fit masculine only please. Sorry, but not typically drawn to married/partnered, bottoms or big guys.
Please note that I am not interested in quick sex hookups, massage guys or those looking for generous men or someone to support them.
I Am typically attracted to the following:
Caucasian, Hispanic, Latin or Middle Eastern men
Medium to fit athletic builds
Good conversationalist
Ages 30-55
Furry or smooth
Masculine
Intimate
Affectionate
Creative between the sheets
Cuddler
Spontaneous
Short hair/goatee's
Sports fans
Likes Camping/RVing
Ocean Cruises
Fan of other outdoor activities (hiking, hanging by the pool, etc.)
Safe sex
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Sacramento, California, USA 
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Sexual orientation isn't important to me - cowboys and horsemen in full gear (Boots, Spurs, Chaps)
is my turn on. Also get aroused by sweat and mansmells. Not after quickies or hookups.
Age: 71, male, looking for a man in Dallas, Texas, USA 
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Developed great friendships with those men who are closeted.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Simpsonville, South Carolina, USA 
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My wife died 2 years ago August and don't want the drama of another wife. what I do want is a
father/son relationship where there is commitment and growth with out all the trauma to the family.
Age: 85, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Long Beach, California, USA 
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i am a closeted gay because i have 4 children who are gorwn and have 10 grand children who dont know
i loke men
Age: 70, male, looking for a man in Riverton, Riverton, Wyoming, USA 
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Masculine, discreet
Age: 55, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in New York, New York, USA
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Pro Trump, small town, rural, professional, educated, closeted, man looking for a man to date.
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in San Antonio, Texas, USA
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Intimate encounters and friendships
Age: 56, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fort Smith, Arkansas, USA
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Hey, looking for safe clean hook ups.
Age: 52, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Indianapolis, Indiana, USA
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I’m in the closet
Age: 45, transgender, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Penzance, Cornwall, UK 
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I'm not open about my curiosity.
Age: 55, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Kanawha County, West Virginia, USA
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In closet here looking for poz top men
Age: 67, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Rohrerstown, Lancaster County, Pennsylvania, USA 
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I was in the closet for 30+ years. I know what its like, the isolation, deception, covering your
tracks. I honor every man's journey in accepting and celebrating his true nature, however he chooses to show it.
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Nw Greensboro, Greensboro, North Carolina, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next
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Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
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Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Dothan, Alabama, USA
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA
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Age: 57, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA
Age: 72, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
Age: 69, male, looking for friends with a man in New Mexico, USA
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Beach County, Florida, USA
Age: 66, male, looking for a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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Age: 62, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Texas, USA
Age: 67, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA 
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Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
Age: 70, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Charlotte, North Carolina, USA
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Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
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It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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Looking to meet other white or latin males for good times and maybe more and be pretty HWP, not
interested in fem or over weight guys. Willing to relocate for that special guy. I am pretty middle of the road politically. Don't be shy drop me a line for any questions and such.
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Dothan, Alabama, USA
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I am probably the worst person you can meet. ;)But other than that, here are the basics.
I am:
• 5'11"
• 59 years of time on this planet
• 265# but working on getting it down to around 225#. Want to help a guy out?
• Grey hair
• Brown eyes.
• I have a furry belly :)
• Non-smoker. (But I do not get bothered by smokers)
• Don't do drugs.
• Incredibly shy
• Learning to live life
SEXUALLY:
• I am a bottom.
• Not very well experienced
• Not well endowed (Hung like a tic-tac ;) )
• I like shower/bath sex. (lets get dirty and clean at the same time! ;) )
• I also enjoy a bit of frotage (clothing on).
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The Details:
If you're interested in hooking up, that probably will not happen. Sex isn't the main goal for me. Besides as stated above, I am not well endowed. It's pretty darn small (3"~4" hard), and that is why I prefer to be a bottom.
I also find sex with clothes on . . or in the shower or bath . . can be unique and fun. I also like to give oral (Reciprocation is not needed).
I tend to be a bit shy and naive, so if you are interested and seem sincere, you will need to have a public place and time in mind to meet at first before the considerations of anything else will happen.
So if you managed to read through all this, Hurrah! You might as well respond now, and say hi. (And I don't mean to literally write to me with the word "Hi" and say nothing else.) You don't need to carry on like I just did ... but please put some of your sparkling personality in your message.
Or don't.
See if I care.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA
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Wanted Bottom Man
I am 69, six foot two inches, 220 lbs., salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, beard, slightly hairy body, eight inches cut d/d/s free, nudist, top, discreet.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
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I am a gay man 55, rural guy who ranches for a living, looking for a man to join me. Thinking about
the possibility of a small gay commune here on the ranch for gay men that are not into the urban life, but still like the company of other gay men. Let me know your thoughts.
Age: 57, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 72, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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In the mean time...On The Road Again...Off To The Mountains...Gone Fly Fishing: I am kept busy
working on my landscaping and my home. There is always something to do. I'm clean cut and well groomed but don't mind getting my hands dirty. I'm told I clean up well. I am a honest, trustworthy, healthy, HIV Neg, loyal, sincere, and monogamous. I have integrity and I'm easy going and looking for the same in a companion. Pretty much an all around nice guy. I still like to do moderate to difficult hiking, trail riding, fly fishing, and kayaking or canoeing. I like rodeos, country western dancing & 2 stepping. First date, sharing a meal, good conversation, and getting to know one another. Maybe a little slow dancing, or a simple quite evening on the patio. We could take a long day trek into nature, walk along a river and skip some stones. Looking to relocate for the right man or location, quite rural area would be nice, another state, town, or country. For now, I'm heading out to embark on my adventures. Mr. Right is out there somewhere. Maybe I will run into him or him into me. Maybe he will be the one to show me around where ever I might be traveling. You just never know.
It is better to be alone than with the wrong man. For a LTR = hard work, monogamy = Life Partner = loyal honesty, and good communications between us. A relationship were we have each others back, Working towards; "I can trust you with my life." Seems hard to find that kind of man these days, but maybe not. Until then, I'm flying solo and looking to make some new friends out there. Take Care and Be Safe
Age: 69, male, looking for friends with a man in New Mexico, USA
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Looking for friends, and maybe more. I’m looking for other masculine, discreet, straight acting
country. Men are like-minded for friends and possibly relationship. Hit me up to chat and ask any questions you may have.
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Beach County, Florida, USA
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Easy going, laid back country boy here looking for similar. Be nice to find a guy that likes the wide open spaces, horses, cattle, dogs and other livestock.
Age: 66, male, looking for a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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Well, let me start by saying I am a born and raised Albertan. I am just your average ginger guy. I
am career-driven and more of a suburban-rural type of guy. I tend to like the simpler things in life and like to take things as they come. I have no great expectations on dating sites but in small hopes of meeting similar-minded dudes with the same interests and drive as me.
I am for one not much for the gay scene, I rather be camping and hiking or hunting or fishing or 4X4ing or Quading, and boating even going horseback riding and checking out rodeos. I love checking out the Auto or Outdoor shows along with the home and garden and big Motorbike shows. I am always down for random road trips from the mountains to the countryside to Kelowna to having a pint on a patio somewhere. I do watch hockey and some other sports, to just a simple horseback ride. I love country music and rock mainly as well 80s. As for shows I love to watch The Walking Dead or Netflix
Age: 46, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Carstairs, Alberta, CANADA
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No hassles hayseed cowboy here. Easy to please. No drama, no strings, fun times.
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Age: 62, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Texas, USA
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Married over 45 years, Christian, g0y, decent, clean, conservative. Looking for a lasting
friendship, not just hookups. I don't consider myself that good looking, but I have been told by some men that I am. I have also been told that I am a good kisser. I enjoy that kind of intimate feeling with a man. Especially if I find him attractive, but also if we just connect as friends where we have respect and affection for each other. I like to hike and would love a hiking buddy. I realize that I am very limited being married and any potential friend must be kept a secret. My marriage has been sexless since 1988 and I have only been meeting men since 2015.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA
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Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
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I can travel to you... or host in Palm Springs, CA
I love history, geography, art, languages, to read and to travel,
Also, into hiking, skiing, swimming. camping, out doors
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA
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Howdy, country guy, 6ft, 210 lbs, height/weight proportionate, love the country/western lifestyle
and culture, looking to meet the same, age UNDER 60, for friendship, fun, dates and could be open to more when the right guy comes along. I'm an easy going, friendly, approachable guy with a wide variety of interests, including the gym, love country music and dancing, rodeos and much more. Love a guy who is masculine, friendly with a good sense of humour. A guy wearing his boots and spurs is hot! I'm sexually a bottom so I'm looking to meet another single vers or top man. If you liked what you read, shoot me a message. Love to travel and recently returned from the Calgary Stampede, will be in the Toronto area in October 2025. Sorry guys but no pics, no response!
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA
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In a perfect world you would move here and help me on the ranch. It would be good if you were
mechanical too. A love of plants , and cooking. It would not hurt if you were fuzzy as compared to smooth. But I can live with most things.
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
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Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my
own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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