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Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA 
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Pennsylvania, USA
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Austin, Texas, USA
Age: 74, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Leeds, Yorkshire and the Humber, England, UK 
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Beach County, Florida, USA
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Shawnee, Oklahoma, USA
Age: 55, male, looking for friends in Utah, USA
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA
Age: 28, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cameron County, Texas, USA
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If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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Masculine overeducated redneck who grew up on a dairy farm.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Pennsylvania, USA
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About me:
I’m calm, reliable, and very easy to sit next to. I build trust fast and keep my life simple on purpose. I’m drawn to older, grounded men and I value companionship over chemistry fireworks.
I like shared routines: coffee, quiet evenings, good conversation, the comfort of being in the same room without needing to fill the silence. I’m very much a “side-by-side” person.
Western gear isn’t a costume for me — it’s home. Boots, denim, bolo ties, and a slower pace suit me just fine. I enjoy a smoke now and then and appreciate places where people linger instead of rush.
What I’m looking for:
A peaceful partnership with a man who’s settled in himself. Someone who enjoys closeness without pressure — sitting together, maybe sharing a couch or a bed in pajamas, not racing toward anything sexual.
Sex isn’t the center for me. Affection can exist without escalation. If you’re high-libido or need constant physical intensity, we probably won’t fit — no hard feelings.
Ideal time together looks like:
Weekday evenings, coffee or a drink, quiet talk, shared space. Life lived calmly, not loudly.
Deal-breakers:
Rushing intimacy, sexual pressure, drama, or needing me to be someone else.
Green flags:
My age or older, steady, patient, comfortable with silence, appreciates tradition and ritual.
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
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I reject the "Gay" Lifestyle, the "Gay" Flag, the "Gay" political agenda. PERIOD
I am a man who likes men.
Looking for the rural life with one or more men who reject modern society and don't mind chopping wood for heat or driving 2 hours to the nearest big box store.
Looking to retire in the next few years, but until then I have started working 100% remote so I can relocate anywhere (where there's no state income tax, that is). Figure I should find a place in the country with Star Link and work and flesh out my retirement place with the niceties while I can afford it. Anyone want to join me?
The ideal place for me to retire would be Fort Davis, TX on the Davis Mountains; a few acres, single/double wide mobile home, sheds turned into an office and/or tack room, a barn, solar power with battery back up and a rain catchment system. A garden and a few fruit/nut trees and a few chickens. Living as self sufficiently as possible, having outside work to do to stay healthy and in shape and being outdoors. Knowing that friendship and companionship lasts while sex fades, keeps me focused on finding a simple life with like minded men.
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Austin, Texas, USA
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Howdy
Age: 74, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA
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I just like to be myself and let others be themselves and see where it goes! I'm honest and genuine and am looking for likewise in a top as I am a big 'ol bottom!
Don't like posers and users or people with agendas! If you're none of these we'll get along fine! Not sure if true love or soulmates exist, change my mind! I'm kinda of shy and like alone time! Not into bar scenes although I do like a good drink! Maybe when the pandemic is over we can go out!
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
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My name's Michael and over 60. Please do not ask for my email address or telephone number - you
won't get them. If you're genuine, we'll continue communicating on here until we're both comfortable with each other! I live in a small town near two big cities but would be happier in the middle of nowhere growing my own food, livestock and company. Only thing missing is someone with whom I can share it.
Looking, primarily, for friendship though not afraid of finding a long term relationship but not desperate to get one or flit from one relationship to another trying to find "the One". I'm a widower (civil partnership) and have been on my own since 2010 so am happy with my own company. It's nice to make friends and spread the joy whether that be via e-mail, skype, etc. I've piled on the pounds lately and have just started doing something about it. I suppose I could be described as a typical bear type though there's more to me that that and would rather know for me rather than "the look" as that often leads to more disappointment. Very much into arts and crafts, archery, playing music, baking and cookery. Currently a Civil Servant but nor afraid of getting my hands dirty - I worked as a teenager on a farm. For now, take good care, thanks for reading this far and all the very best for the future.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Leeds, Yorkshire and the Humber, England, UK
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I am a gay man 55, rural guy who ranches for a living, looking for a man to join me. Thinking about
the possibility of a small gay commune here on the ranch for gay men that are not into the urban life, but still like the company of other gay men. Let me know your thoughts.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA
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Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
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Looking for friends, and maybe more. I’m looking for other masculine, discreet, straight acting
country. Men are like-minded for friends and possibly relationship. Hit me up to chat and ask any questions you may have.
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Beach County, Florida, USA
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A true country boy.
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Shawnee, Oklahoma, USA
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Looking around but very anonymous with my life because why tell someone about stuff you probably
heard before but I'll tell you some sexy stories from my pass lovers. Don't be down if we chat some more maybe I'll open up some more info maybe.
Age: 55, male, looking for friends in Utah, USA
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iso of a man 45+ for friendship and relationship. interested in dating and companionship.
not interested in guys just looking for NSA stuff.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA
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I am shy and inexperienced. I am a professional guy with rural roots. I enjoy gaming, reading, road
trips, music, and tv. I love winter and winter gear like coveralls. Guys in coveralls turn me on; naked or d*ck pics do not.
I’m looking for friendship first. I’d like to find my best friend. I definitely am looking for someone who also likes winter and winter clothes! Additionally, someone who shares some of my other interests would be great.
I don’t smoke or use drugs and am a light drinker. I’m looking for someone who also doesn’t smoke or use drugs.
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA
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Looking for guys that would not mind talking from time to time
And form a friendship and maybe more
Age: 28, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA
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I am new to the scene and am therefore seeking a mature masculine man who is not into the bar scene,
is closeted not into any of the gay drama and who enjoys the everyday country living atmosphere.
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cameron County, Texas, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next