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Age: 74, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA 
Age: 56, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Id, Boise, Idaho, USA 
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA 
Age: 57, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Davenport, Iowa, USA 
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA 
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Amarillo, Texas, USA 
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Stevens Point Wi, Rural Area, Wisconsin, USA 
Age: 62, male, looking for a man in Omak, Washington, USA 
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Pennsylvania, USA 
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA 
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA 
Age: 56, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA 
Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA 
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA 
Age: 29, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA 
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Howdy
Age: 74, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA 
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I don't try to be someone I'm not as many others here. I'm a regular average guy on the outside.
Inside, I've always liked cowboys or guys who dress the part, and I like guys who are really masculine, more than myself (I'm a mix of masculine/sensitive/emotional – call the last parts feminine if you want). I'm conversational and intelligent. I don't like drama seekers or guys who email me professing that they want monogamy and immediately proceed to ask me explicit sexual questions and then throw me away once they find I don't fit their narrow sexual pursuits. I certainly have my sexual proclivities and fetishes and describe myself very generally as "submissive", but I really like to be conversational with someone and grow to like and trust them first. I don't smoke or use recreational drugs and am only interested in the same (occasional cigar smokers being an exception). I love to swim, hike, walk, bike, ski, and take photos of nature. Many of us are damaged in some form or another as gay/bi men but treat each other like disposable pieces of shit, especially on sites like this. Approach me with civility, conservation, and curiosity and you will receive that back in kind.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Id, Boise, Idaho, USA 
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If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA 
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6’5” top
220 lbs
Biker, Cowboy, Camper, Rodeoer
Age: 57, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Davenport, Iowa, USA 
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About me:
I’m calm, reliable, and very easy to sit next to. I build trust fast and keep my life simple on purpose. I’m drawn to older, grounded men and I value companionship over chemistry fireworks.
I like shared routines: coffee, quiet evenings, good conversation, the comfort of being in the same room without needing to fill the silence. I’m very much a “side-by-side” person.
Western gear isn’t a costume for me — it’s home. Boots, denim, bolo ties, and a slower pace suit me just fine. I enjoy a smoke now and then and appreciate places where people linger instead of rush.
What I’m looking for:
A peaceful partnership with a man who’s settled in himself. Someone who enjoys closeness without pressure — sitting together by a bonfire, that kind of thing.
Sex isn’t happening with me. Affection can exist without escalation. If you’re high-libido or need constant physical intensity, we probably won’t fit — no hard feelings.
Ideal time together looks like:
Weekday evenings, coffee or a drink, quiet talk, shared space. Life lived calmly, not loudly.
Deal-breakers:
Needing intimacy/sex, drama, or needing me to be someone else.
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA 
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NEW
Just an average small town guy currently living in the city. My job is white collar but I identify
more as a blue collar guy. Looking for more than just hookups.
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Amarillo, Texas, USA 
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I've always loved the country, Grew up on a big farm-Big family, Love being outdoors. Woods-Streams-Animals.
Being free. But love to hold a man close once in awhile-In boots-chaps.levis - And that manly scent. Just love life.
And will always be young and spirited. And the men must be in boots ,And be a boot lover as I am.
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Stevens Point Wi, Rural Area, Wisconsin, USA 
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6'0 175lbs short thinnig brown hair eyes nice dick looking for fwb and to have some fun
Age: 62, male, looking for a man in Omak, Washington, USA 
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Masculine overeducated redneck who grew up on a dairy farm.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Pennsylvania, USA 
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Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA 
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I enjoy creating art, the outdoors, the rugged lifestyle, etc.
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA 
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Leather, bondage, sm, roleplaying
Age: 56, male, looking for intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA 
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Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my
own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA 
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I am a gay man 55, rural guy who ranches for a living, looking for a man to join me. Thinking about
the possibility of a small gay commune here on the ranch for gay men that are not into the urban life, but still like the company of other gay men. Let me know your thoughts.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA 
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Looking for guys that would not mind talking from time to time
And form a friendship and maybe more
Age: 29, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA 
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