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Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA 
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA 
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA 
Age: 40, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in El Paso County, Colorado, USA 
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in Mitchell, South Dakota, USA 
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Birmingham, Alabama, USA 
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA 
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA 
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Houston, Texas, USA 
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Austin, Texas, USA 
Age: 46, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Carstairs, Alberta, CANADA 
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Texas, USA 
Age: 18, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Poplar Bluff, Missouri, USA 
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA 
Age: 66, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Houston, Harris County, Texas, USA 
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Northside, Tampa, Florida, USA 
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About me:
I’m calm, reliable, and very easy to sit next to. I build trust fast and keep my life simple on purpose. I’m drawn to older, grounded men and I value companionship over chemistry fireworks.
I like shared routines: coffee, quiet evenings, good conversation, the comfort of being in the same room without needing to fill the silence. I’m very much a “side-by-side” person.
Western gear isn’t a costume for me — it’s home. Boots, denim, bolo ties, and a slower pace suit me just fine. I enjoy a smoke now and then and appreciate places where people linger instead of rush.
What I’m looking for:
A peaceful partnership with a man who’s settled in himself. Someone who enjoys closeness without pressure — sitting together, maybe sharing a couch or a bed in pajamas, not racing toward anything sexual.
Sex isn’t the center for me. Affection can exist without escalation. If you’re high-libido or need constant physical intensity, we probably won’t fit — no hard feelings.
Ideal time together looks like:
Weekday evenings, coffee or a drink, quiet talk, shared space. Life lived calmly, not loudly.
Deal-breakers:
Rushing intimacy, sexual pressure, drama, or needing me to be someone else.
Green flags:
My age or older, steady, patient, comfortable with silence, appreciates tradition and ritual.
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA 
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I've owned businesses, managed businesses, and worked as an independent contractor.
I've been a helicopter pilot, and piloted the 1912 Ford Model T Speedster in my garage. I'm relaxed in the desert, comfortable in the forest, and competent in the city.
What about you? Tell me about you, rather than asking what I'm here for. We'll get to that. If there's chemistry.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA 
3.
If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA 
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A buddy to go to the shooting range with, or go cast a line at the lake. If he wants to tag along and act as my assistant/"groom" or visa versa at a horse show would be awesome too. Really anything other than "flying solo" around El Paso and Elbert County would be nice.
Age: 40, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in El Paso County, Colorado, USA 
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Gay cowboy looki for same with same likes etcs but start out as friends first
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in Mitchell, South Dakota, USA 
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Looking to meet other white or latin males for good times and maybe more and be pretty HWP, not
interested in fem or over weight guys. Willing to relocate for that special guy. I am pretty middle of the road politically. Don't be shy drop me a line for any questions and such.
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Birmingham, Alabama, USA 
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I can travel to you... or host in Palm Springs, CA
I love history, geography, art, languages, to read and to travel,
Also, into hiking, skiing, swimming. camping, out doors
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA 
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iso of a man 45+ for friendship and relationship. interested in dating and companionship.
not interested in guys just looking for NSA stuff.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA 
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Normal Guy Here Who likes to gear Up in Cowboy Wear, Cowboys are hot and Manly, I go commando in my
tight wranglers, I’m proud of what I got hanging and showing it, would love to share that passion fucking outdoors, Against a fence, a Pickup bed or in a Barn, or getting fucked, My Pictures are up to date..
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Houston, Texas, USA 
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I reject the "Gay" Lifestyle, the "Gay" Flag, the "Gay" political agenda. PERIOD
I am a man who likes men.
Looking for the rural life with one or more men who reject modern society and don't mind chopping wood for heat or driving 2 hours to the nearest big box store.
Looking to retire in the next few years, but until then I have started working 100% remote so I can relocate anywhere (where there's no state income tax, that is). Figure I should find a place in the country with Star Link and work and flesh out my retirement place with the niceties while I can afford it. Anyone want to join me?
The ideal place for me to retire would be Fort Davis, TX on the Davis Mountains; a few acres, single/double wide mobile home, sheds turned into an office and/or tack room, a barn, solar power with battery back up and a rain catchment system. A garden and a few fruit/nut trees and a few chickens. Living as self sufficiently as possible, having outside work to do to stay healthy and in shape and being outdoors. Knowing that friendship and companionship lasts while sex fades, keeps me focused on finding a simple life with like minded men.
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Austin, Texas, USA 
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Well, let me start by saying I am a born and raised Albertan. I am just your average ginger guy. I
am career-driven and more of a suburban-rural type of guy. I tend to like the simpler things in life and like to take things as they come. I have no great expectations on dating sites but in small hopes of meeting similar-minded dudes with the same interests and drive as me.
I am for one not much for the gay scene, I rather be camping and hiking or hunting or fishing or 4X4ing or Quading, and boating even going horseback riding and checking out rodeos. I love checking out the Auto or Outdoor shows along with the home and garden and big Motorbike shows. I am always down for random road trips from the mountains to the countryside to Kelowna to having a pint on a patio somewhere. I do watch hockey and some other sports, to just a simple horseback ride. I love country music and rock mainly as well 80s. As for shows I love to watch The Walking Dead or Netflix
Age: 46, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Carstairs, Alberta, CANADA 
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Would like to find a good friend that would be in my best friend and turn it into a long term
relationship. Open to trying new things.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Texas, USA 
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I'm looking for a man that's about my age and willing to have a long distance relationship while I
finish my course at the Missouri Welding Institute. I am looking for a man that is okay with long-distance relationships. I took a VoTech class in high school and am certified in welding, forklift operation, and OSHA certified. Phone number is 573-527-7549.
Age: 18, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Poplar Bluff, Missouri, USA 
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA 
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Married couple
Age: 66, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Houston, Harris County, Texas, USA 
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Looking for a man who is not afraid of who they are, someone who knows how to be, and knows the
meaning of a true southern gentleman and a true cowboy. That is a word of honor, and they can hold their word up to honor.
Someone who is not afraid to show their face or hide behind a body shot or a pair of boots, not interested in going out with a headless person or pair of boots. For I will not respond to either of these.
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Northside, Tampa, Florida, USA 
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