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Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA 
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
Age: 68, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in San Diego, California, USA
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Birmingham, Alabama, USA
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Austin, Texas, USA
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Houston, Texas, USA
Age: 55, male, looking for a long term relationship with a man in Ft. Myers, Florida, USA
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Texas, USA
Age: 26, male, looking for friends (only!) in Anderson, South Carolina, USA
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA 
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Northside, Tampa, Florida, USA
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Jacksonville, Florida, USA
Age: 57, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters in Johnson County, Indiana, USA
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If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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About me:
I’m calm, reliable, and very easy to sit next to. I build trust fast and keep my life simple on purpose. I’m drawn to older, grounded men and I value companionship over chemistry fireworks.
I like shared routines: coffee, quiet evenings, good conversation, the comfort of being in the same room without needing to fill the silence. I’m very much a “side-by-side” person.
Western gear isn’t a costume for me — it’s home. Boots, denim, bolo ties, and a slower pace suit me just fine. I enjoy a smoke now and then and appreciate places where people linger instead of rush.
What I’m looking for:
A peaceful partnership with a man who’s settled in himself. Someone who enjoys closeness without pressure — sitting together, maybe sharing a couch or a bed in pajamas, not racing toward anything sexual.
Sex isn’t the center for me. Affection can exist without escalation. If you’re high-libido or need constant physical intensity, we probably won’t fit — no hard feelings.
Ideal time together looks like:
Weekday evenings, coffee or a drink, quiet talk, shared space. Life lived calmly, not loudly.
Deal-breakers:
Rushing intimacy, sexual pressure, drama, or needing me to be someone else.
Green flags:
My age or older, steady, patient, comfortable with silence, appreciates tradition and ritual.
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
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Looking for that good old fashion Partner of a life time, got taken to many times, I want to find
that man that can communicate with me, share his thoughts Love honesty friendship,be faithful with every word that comes out of his mouth and never ever be afraid to tell me the truth and be honest with me. Be my shelter Be my Rock, walk beside me, talk about our future and make it the best that we ever had in our Life's, be happy, laugh sing, dance, hugs, cuddles, embrace each other everyday like it's our first and last.
Age: 68, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in San Diego, California, USA
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In a perfect world you would move here and help me on the ranch. It would be good if you were
mechanical too. A love of plants , and cooking. It would not hurt if you were fuzzy as compared to smooth. But I can live with most things.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
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I've owned businesses, managed businesses, and worked as an independent contractor.
I've been a helicopter pilot, and piloted the 1912 Ford Model T Speedster in my garage. I'm relaxed in the desert, comfortable in the forest, and competent in the city.
What about you? Tell me about you, rather than asking what I'm here for. We'll get to that. If there's chemistry.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA
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Looking to meet other white or latin males for good times and maybe more and be pretty HWP, not
interested in fem or over weight guys. Willing to relocate for that special guy. I am pretty middle of the road politically. Don't be shy drop me a line for any questions and such.
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Birmingham, Alabama, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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I reject the "Gay" Lifestyle, the "Gay" Flag, the "Gay" political agenda. PERIOD
I am a man who likes men.
Looking for the rural life with one or more men who reject modern society and don't mind chopping wood for heat or driving 2 hours to the nearest big box store.
Looking to retire in the next few years, but until then I have started working 100% remote so I can relocate anywhere (where there's no state income tax, that is). Figure I should find a place in the country with Star Link and work and flesh out my retirement place with the niceties while I can afford it. Anyone want to join me?
The ideal place for me to retire would be Fort Davis, TX on the Davis Mountains; a few acres, single/double wide mobile home, sheds turned into an office and/or tack room, a barn, solar power with battery back up and a rain catchment system. A garden and a few fruit/nut trees and a few chickens. Living as self sufficiently as possible, having outside work to do to stay healthy and in shape and being outdoors. Knowing that friendship and companionship lasts while sex fades, keeps me focused on finding a simple life with like minded men.
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Austin, Texas, USA
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Normal Guy Here Who likes to gear Up in Cowboy Wear, Cowboys are hot and Manly, I go commando in my
tight wranglers, I’m proud of what I got hanging and showing it, would love to share that passion fucking outdoors, Against a fence, a Pickup bed or in a Barn, or getting fucked, My Pictures are up to date..
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Houston, Texas, USA
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Countryboy horse trainer, red hair blue eyes, I'm a monogamous ltr kinda of guy. I like camping,
hiking, dancing, cooking, gardening, growing and raising my own food on a homestead/farm/Ranch. Love music, older country music is my go to everyday music but I do enjoy different kinds of music. I'm a big lyrics nut. I'm honest and loyal almost to a fault. Family oriented not into the gay scene. Not into hookups or open relationships. Just an old fashioned countryboy here. I enjoy the simple things in life. Hiking down a creek bed, slow dance around a campfire, long country drives, trail rides on a horse. I love animals and livestock. Florida Native but goal is to relocate, The rual area I was born and raised in has gotten way to crowded and the land way to expensive for my blood. I love living in the country definitely not a city boy. I'm more on the masculine side and like masculine men. Monogamy and moral integrity is a must have for me. Someone who knows what chivalry is. Someone that's looking for a life partner and that's not afraid to get married if it comes to that stage in the relationship. I'm definitely not your typical gay man. Looking forward to meeting a real man and a life partner to walk beside each other through life. Where we each do whatever it takes to make it in life and relationship.
Age: 55, male, looking for a long term relationship with a man in Ft. Myers, Florida, USA
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I can travel to you... or host in Palm Springs, CA
I love history, geography, art, languages, to read and to travel,
Also, into hiking, skiing, swimming. camping, out doors
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA
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iso of a man 45+ for friendship and relationship. interested in dating and companionship.
not interested in guys just looking for NSA stuff.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA
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Would like to find a good friend that would be in my best friend and turn it into a long term
relationship. Open to trying new things.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Texas, USA
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I am a gay guy who loves rodeos and team roping, i am a gay guy who wants to meet other guys for
friendship
Age: 26, male, looking for friends (only!) in Anderson, South Carolina, USA
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Howdy, im a single country guy, 6ft, 210 lbs, love the country/western lifestyle and culture,
looking to meet the same for friendship, fun, dates and am open to a ltr if the right guy comes along. I have a wide variety of interests, including the gym, love country music and dancing, rodeos and much more. Love a guy who is my height or taller, masculine, friendly with a good sense of humour. Im allergic to smokers so prefer a non smoker! I love to travel, very mobile for the right guy and hope to be back to visit my favourite state of Texas soon and I have plans to visit Nashville in 2026.
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA
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Looking for a man who is not afraid of who they are, someone who knows how to be, and knows the
meaning of a true southern gentleman and a true cowboy. That is a word of honor, and they can hold their word up to honor.
Someone who is not afraid to show their face or hide behind a body shot or a pair of boots, not interested in going out with a headless person or pair of boots. For I will not respond to either of these.
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Northside, Tampa, Florida, USA
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but I long for a long term intimate relationship. I baby bold brash direct blunt but I'm an open book. I know when to mind in my manners. I know when I can cut.loose. I don't fear anything. I accept the occurrences that can happen. Except pleasures that come my way. I don't deny myself fun along the road to enlightenment. I'm semi-retired and working on my photography gallery looking to also get into videography. I'm also a creative writer jotting down short stories of my life experiences. I plan to write a book about the adventure and all the characters who played part in it. My head is often in the clouds and I'm always looking for that partner in crime open to share and experience that special space with me. I'm a simple guy and yet I'm a complex and blunt Aquarian and I suspect it would take a very open-minded individual to understand me. I'm loyal, devoted and trustworthy to a fault though it fills me with pride and with that I have a lot to offer the right guy. I hope he comes along soon while I still have some life in me. I'm 45 in my mind and I'm more active than most 45 year olds I know so that's a blessing. I'm a hopeless romantic yet not corny, love affection, some attention, morning coffee, good dinners, proper manners ( a Bostonian after all), laughter, anything furniture, photography, history, the company of friends, the outdoors, anything outdoors, hiking, biking, camping, 'urban hunting' and the beach at night and that goes for the desert, as well. I like life in nighttime mode. It's quieter, less hectic, and liberating. If I could find a guy who would enjoy these things shared as well I'd be grateful as I am with every day that comes. Life is good.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Jacksonville, Florida, USA
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54 married. Looking for funI’ve
had relationships with men. I’m simple easy going no thrill. Just kick back kind of guy
Talk about myself put myself out there. I do better talking in phone then typing. Spelling not my strong suit. My add I just start typing what I’m thinking making no sense at all. I believe I’m a top. I like receiving anal play. Gentle not rough. Getting rubbed down all over is great. Being outdoors is fun. I’ve shot guns. Gone fishing. Just dislike removing the hook. I don’t know why. Never have. Hopefully this helps. Oh
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