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Age: 31, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Mesa, Arizona, USA 
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Shawnee, Oklahoma, USA
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA 
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
Age: 29, male, looking for a long term relationship with a man in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Birmingham, Alabama, USA
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA
Age: 45, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Valdosta, Georgia, USA
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Texas, USA
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Oklahoma, USA
Age: 24, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Grand Prairie, Alberta, CANADA
Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Looking for a cowboy who ain't afraid of roping a brat (sometimes literally), and putting me in my
place. Looking for a good time, and for a possible relationship.
Age: 31, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Mesa, Arizona, USA
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If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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I am shy and inexperienced. I am a professional guy with rural roots. I enjoy gaming, reading, road
trips, music, and tv. I love winter and winter gear like coveralls. Guys in coveralls turn me on; naked or d*ck pics do not.
I’m looking for friendship first. I’d like to find my best friend. I definitely am looking for someone who also likes winter and winter clothes! Additionally, someone who shares some of my other interests would be great.
I don’t smoke or use drugs and am a light drinker. I’m looking for someone who also doesn’t smoke or use drugs.
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA
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A true country boy.
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Shawnee, Oklahoma, USA
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Howdy, im a single country guy, 6ft, 210 lbs, love the country/western lifestyle and culture,
looking to meet the same for friendship, fun, dates and am open to a ltr if the right guy comes along. I have a wide variety of interests, including the gym, love country music and dancing, rodeos and much more. Love a guy who is my height or taller, masculine, friendly with a good sense of humour. Im allergic to smokers so prefer a non smoker! I love to travel, very mobile for the right guy and hope to be back to visit my favourite state of Texas soon and I have plans to visit Nashville in 2026.
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA
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About me:
I’m calm, reliable, and very easy to sit next to. I build trust fast and keep my life simple on purpose. I’m drawn to older, grounded men and I value companionship over chemistry fireworks.
I like shared routines: coffee, quiet evenings, good conversation, the comfort of being in the same room without needing to fill the silence. I’m very much a “side-by-side” person.
Western gear isn’t a costume for me — it’s home. Boots, denim, bolo ties, and a slower pace suit me just fine. I enjoy a smoke now and then and appreciate places where people linger instead of rush.
What I’m looking for:
A peaceful partnership with a man who’s settled in himself. Someone who enjoys closeness without pressure — sitting together, maybe sharing a couch or a bed in pajamas, not racing toward anything sexual.
Sex isn’t the center for me. Affection can exist without escalation. If you’re high-libido or need constant physical intensity, we probably won’t fit — no hard feelings.
Ideal time together looks like:
Weekday evenings, coffee or a drink, quiet talk, shared space. Life lived calmly, not loudly.
Deal-breakers:
Rushing intimacy, sexual pressure, drama, or needing me to be someone else.
Green flags:
My age or older, steady, patient, comfortable with silence, appreciates tradition and ritual.
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
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I just like to be myself and let others be themselves and see where it goes! I'm honest and genuine and am looking for likewise in a top as I am a big 'ol bottom!
Don't like posers and users or people with agendas! If you're none of these we'll get along fine! Not sure if true love or soulmates exist, change my mind! I'm kinda of shy and like alone time! Not into bar scenes although I do like a good drink! Maybe when the pandemic is over we can go out!
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
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I enjoy creating art, the outdoors, the rugged lifestyle, etc.
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
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Wanted Bottom Man
I am 70, six foot two inches, 217 lbs., salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, beard, slightly hairy body, eight inches cut d/d/s free, nudist, top, discreet.
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
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Most loyal, loving ,sincere , caring and respectful pride guy to exist and someone who takes care of
himself and treat every bit of himself so special for the person in his life and always give out the best.
Age: 29, male, looking for a long term relationship with a man in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA
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Looking to meet other white or latin males for good times and maybe more and be pretty HWP, not
interested in fem or over weight guys. Willing to relocate for that special guy. I am pretty middle of the road politically. Don't be shy drop me a line for any questions and such.
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Birmingham, Alabama, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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I am a gay man 55, rural guy who ranches for a living, looking for a man to join me. Thinking about
the possibility of a small gay commune here on the ranch for gay men that are not into the urban life, but still like the company of other gay men. Let me know your thoughts.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA
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I've owned businesses, managed businesses, and worked as an independent contractor.
I've been a helicopter pilot, and piloted the 1912 Ford Model T Speedster in my garage. I'm relaxed in the desert, comfortable in the forest, and competent in the city.
What about you? Tell me about you, rather than asking what I'm here for. We'll get to that. If there's chemistry.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA
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NEW
My details in my profile. Just a normal guy, potentially looking to be in a relationship.
Age: 45, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Valdosta, Georgia, USA
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Would like to find a good friend that would be in my best friend and turn it into a long term
relationship. Open to trying new things.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Texas, USA
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I am a masculine discrete white cowboy, cattleman. DDF. 57. 6’0. 200#. Looking for a man to
help,at the ranch.
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Oklahoma, USA
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Mid 20s Alberta guy into music, outdoors, and adventures and searching for my cowboy to share it
with
Age: 24, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Grand Prairie, Alberta, CANADA
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Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my
own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next