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Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA 
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
Age: 29, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA
Age: 57, male, looking for a man in Clay County, Mississippi, USA
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
Age: 40, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in El Paso County, Colorado, USA
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Amarillo, Texas, USA
Age: 59, male, looking for a man in Birmingham, Alabama, USA
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
Age: 57, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Nashville, Tennessee, USA
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA 
Age: 56, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA 
Age: 30, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Atlantic City, New Jersey, USA
Age: 36, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Greeley, Colorado, USA
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
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I am a gay man 55, rural guy who ranches for a living, looking for a man to join me. Thinking about
the possibility of a small gay commune here on the ranch for gay men that are not into the urban life, but still like the company of other gay men. Let me know your thoughts.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA
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If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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Looking for guys that would not mind talking from time to time
And form a friendship and maybe more
Age: 29, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA
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Laidback type single bi guy here...
Age: 57, male, looking for a man in Clay County, Mississippi, USA
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Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
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A buddy to go to the shooting range with, or go cast a line at the lake. If he wants to tag along and act as my assistant/"groom" or visa versa at a horse show would be awesome too. Really anything other than "flying solo" around El Paso and Elbert County would be nice.
Age: 40, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in El Paso County, Colorado, USA
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Just an average small town guy currently living in the city. My job is white collar but I identify
more as a blue collar guy. Looking for more than just hookups.
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Amarillo, Texas, USA
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Looking to meet other white or latin males for good times and maybe more and be pretty HWP, not
interested in fem or over weight guys. Willing to relocate for that special guy. I am pretty middle of the road politically. Don't be shy drop me a line for any questions and such.
Age: 59, male, looking for a man in Birmingham, Alabama, USA
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I am shy and inexperienced. I am a professional guy with rural roots. I enjoy gaming, reading, road
trips, music, and tv. I love winter and winter gear like coveralls. Guys in coveralls turn me on; naked or d*ck pics do not.
I’m looking for friendship first. I’d like to find my best friend. I definitely am looking for someone who also likes winter and winter clothes! Additionally, someone who shares some of my other interests would be great.
I don’t smoke or use drugs and am a light drinker. I’m looking for someone who also doesn’t smoke or use drugs.
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA
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In a perfect world you would move here and help me on the ranch. It would be good if you were
mechanical too. A love of plants , and cooking. It would not hurt if you were fuzzy as compared to smooth. But I can live with most things.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
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im multiskilled fun to be around always striving towards my goal .my best friend and wife of
over 10 years is in hospice and no woman will ever replace her so im trying a new direction. i would love to meet a white 55 or over gay leatherman that enjoys fetish play bondage and my favorite smoking fetish i love my more 120s , so id like to meet someone like that . i love to french and i french well , ive experimented with a few bi guys but not a gay man yet , it would be nice to mee one , i have tons of gear , the only things i have no interest in is pain pee poo childten or animals,, i can top but my pussy had only had small dildoes s far , i do have hoods gags sleepsacks straight jackets
Age: 57, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Nashville, Tennessee, USA
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Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
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Looking for rural based men. Cowboys , ranchers and farmers. Love a man in wranglers and boots.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA
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I want an affair.
Age: 30, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Atlantic City, New Jersey, USA
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I'm a pretty easy going, go with the flow kind of guy. I enjoy being outdoors, concerts, friends wtc
Age: 36, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Greeley, Colorado, USA
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I cowboyed some in my younger days but bailed out for a bit because I wanted to know and experience
more. I’m well traveled and educated. I enjoy a healthy lifestyle. I’m physically active. I read. I’m a boot, wrangler guy and have been damn near all my life. I wear a hat like it’s a part of me because it is and it is firmly seated on my head. I got a hankering for cowboys, men who take care of themselves, others and who are kind to their animals. Looking for a country/cowboy man 40+ who shares a passion for all things cowboy wild to mild and who wants to explore more what this life has to offer. Social liberal fiscal conservative here. Be kind. It’s is a turn on. Live within your means because it keeps you honest. Taking care of yourself keeps you sane. Don’t drink but don’t care if you do. Dip some. HMU and see where it goes.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and, since my last breakup in 2020, "Mountains of the Heart"
( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ... "She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
"Dust on the Barbed Wire" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
"Jealous of the Moon" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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I enjoy creating art, the outdoors, the rugged lifestyle, etc.
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
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About me:
I’m calm, reliable, and very easy to sit next to. I build trust fast and keep my life simple on purpose. I’m drawn to older, grounded men and I value companionship over chemistry fireworks.
I like shared routines: coffee, quiet evenings, good conversation, the comfort of being in the same room without needing to fill the silence. I’m very much a “side-by-side” person.
Western gear isn’t a costume for me — it’s home. Boots, denim, bolo ties, and a slower pace suit me just fine. I enjoy a smoke now and then and appreciate places where people linger instead of rush.
What I’m looking for:
A peaceful partnership with a man who’s settled in himself. Someone who enjoys closeness without pressure — sitting together by a bonfire, that kind of thing.
Sex isn’t happening with me. Affection can exist without escalation. If you’re high-libido or need constant physical intensity, we probably won’t fit — no hard feelings.
Ideal time together looks like:
Weekday evenings, coffee or a drink, quiet talk, shared space. Life lived calmly, not loudly.
Deal-breakers:
Needing intimacy/sex, drama, or needing me to be someone else.
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