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Age: 59, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Shawnee, Oklahoma, USA 
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
Age: 45, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Valdosta, Georgia, USA
Age: 31, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Mesa, Arizona, USA
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Birmingham, Alabama, USA
Age: 50, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Age: 61, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Dallas, Texas, USA
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA
Age: 45, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Valdosta, Georgia, USA
Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
Age: 40, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in El Paso County, Colorado, USA
Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Albany, New York, USA
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA
Age: 28, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA
Age: 56, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Id, Boise, Idaho, USA
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A true country boy.
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Shawnee, Oklahoma, USA
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About me:
I’m calm, reliable, and very easy to sit next to. I build trust fast and keep my life simple on purpose. I’m drawn to older, grounded men and I value companionship over chemistry fireworks.
I like shared routines: coffee, quiet evenings, good conversation, the comfort of being in the same room without needing to fill the silence. I’m very much a “side-by-side” person.
Western gear isn’t a costume for me — it’s home. Boots, denim, bolo ties, and a slower pace suit me just fine. I enjoy a smoke now and then and appreciate places where people linger instead of rush.
What I’m looking for:
A peaceful partnership with a man who’s settled in himself. Someone who enjoys closeness without pressure — sitting together, maybe sharing a couch or a bed in pajamas, not racing toward anything sexual.
Sex isn’t the center for me. Affection can exist without escalation. If you’re high-libido or need constant physical intensity, we probably won’t fit — no hard feelings.
Ideal time together looks like:
Weekday evenings, coffee or a drink, quiet talk, shared space. Life lived calmly, not loudly.
Deal-breakers:
Rushing intimacy, sexual pressure, drama, or needing me to be someone else.
Green flags:
My age or older, steady, patient, comfortable with silence, appreciates tradition and ritual.
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
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If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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Just a regular guy, looking for a relationship.
Age: 45, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Valdosta, Georgia, USA
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Looking for a cowboy who ain't afraid of roping a brat (sometimes literally), and putting me in my
place. Looking for a good time, and for a possible relationship.
Age: 31, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Mesa, Arizona, USA
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I just like to be myself and let others be themselves and see where it goes! I'm honest and genuine and am looking for likewise in a top as I am a big 'ol bottom!
Don't like posers and users or people with agendas! If you're none of these we'll get along fine! Not sure if true love or soulmates exist, change my mind! I'm kinda of shy and like alone time! Not into bar scenes although I do like a good drink! Maybe when the pandemic is over we can go out!
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
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Wanted Bottom Man
I am 70, six foot two inches, 217 lbs., salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, beard, slightly hairy body, eight inches cut d/d/s free, nudist, top, discreet.
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
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Looking to meet other white or latin males for good times and maybe more and be pretty HWP, not
interested in fem or over weight guys. Willing to relocate for that special guy. I am pretty middle of the road politically. Don't be shy drop me a line for any questions and such.
Age: 58, male, looking for a man in Birmingham, Alabama, USA
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All man. Not out. Looking for the same. Grew up farming. Wrestled in HS and college. Professional
now. Love all hunting except duck, fishing, camping, sports. Seeking one exclusive friend.
Age: 50, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in St. Louis, Missouri, USA
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Love the look of hairy men
Age: 61, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Dallas, Texas, USA
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I am a gay man 55, rural guy who ranches for a living, looking for a man to join me. Thinking about
the possibility of a small gay commune here on the ranch for gay men that are not into the urban life, but still like the company of other gay men. Let me know your thoughts.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA
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NEW
My details in my profile. Just a normal guy, potentially looking to be in a relationship.
Age: 45, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Valdosta, Georgia, USA
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Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my
own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
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A buddy to go to the shooting range with, or go cast a line at the lake. If he wants to tag along and act as my assistant/"groom" or visa versa at a horse show would be awesome too. Really anything other than "flying solo" around El Paso and Elbert County would be nice.
Age: 40, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in El Paso County, Colorado, USA
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Looking for a Relationship , sex.
I’m very fit, farm chores, riding horses, biking daily, hiking with my Great Pyrenees dogs, swimming, and lifting weights. I’m ripped, in shape. Lift weights. Do farm chores. Have ridden horses since I was born. Internationally known equestrian artist, breeder, and trainer.
Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Albany, New York, USA
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I am probably the worst person you can meet. ;)But other than that, here are the basics.
I am:
• 5'11"
• 59 years of time on this planet
• 265# but working on getting it down to around 225#. Want to help a guy out?
• Grey hair
• Brown eyes.
• I have a furry belly :)
• Non-smoker. (But I do not get bothered by smokers)
• Don't do drugs.
• Incredibly shy
• Learning to live life
SEXUALLY:
• I am a bottom.
• Not very well experienced
• Not well endowed (Hung like a tic-tac ;) )
• I like shower/bath sex. (lets get dirty and clean at the same time! ;) )
• I also enjoy a bit of frotage (clothing on).
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The Details:
If you're interested in hooking up, that probably will not happen. Sex isn't the main goal for me. Besides as stated above, I am not well endowed. It's pretty darn small (3"~4" hard), and that is why I prefer to be a bottom.
I also find sex with clothes on . . or in the shower or bath . . can be unique and fun. I also like to give oral (Reciprocation is not needed).
I tend to be a bit shy and naive, so if you are interested and seem sincere, you will need to have a public place and time in mind to meet at first before the considerations of anything else will happen.
So if you managed to read through all this, Hurrah! You might as well respond now, and say hi. (And I don't mean to literally write to me with the word "Hi" and say nothing else.) You don't need to carry on like I just did ... but please put some of your sparkling personality in your message.
Or don't.
See if I care.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA
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Looking for guys that would not mind talking from time to time
And form a friendship and maybe more
Age: 28, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA
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I don't try to be someone I'm not as many others here. I'm a regular average guy on the outside.
Inside, I've always liked cowboys or guys who dress the part, and I like guys who are really masculine, more than myself (I'm a mix of masculine/sensitive/emotional – call the last parts feminine if you want). I'm conversational and intelligent. I don't like drama seekers or guys who email me professing that they want monogamy and immediately proceed to ask me explicit sexual questions and then throw me away once they find I don't fit their narrow sexual pursuits. I certainly have my sexual proclivities and fetishes and describe myself very generally as "submissive", but I really like to be conversational with someone and grow to like and trust them first. I don't smoke or use recreational drugs and am only interested in the same (occasional cigar smokers being an exception). I love to swim, hike, walk, bike, ski, and take photos of nature. Many of us are damaged in some form or another as gay/bi men but treat each other like disposable pieces of shit, especially on sites like this. Approach me with civility, conservation, and curiosity and you will receive that back in kind.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Id, Boise, Idaho, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next