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Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA 
Age: 37, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
Age: 55, male, looking for a long term relationship with a man in Ft. Myers, Florida, USA
Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
Age: 34, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Madrid, Comunidad de Madrid, SPAIN 
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA
Age: 35, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Grand Junction, Colorado, USA
Age: 74, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA
Age: 62, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
Age: 76, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
Age: 77, male, looking for friends with a man in Syracuse, New York, USA
Age: 53, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Boulder, Colorado, USA
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA 
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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I enjoy creating art, the outdoors, the rugged lifestyle, etc.
Age: 37, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
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Countryboy horse trainer, red hair blue eyes, I'm a monogamous ltr kinda of guy. I like camping,
hiking, dancing, cooking, gardening, growing and raising my own food on a homestead/farm/Ranch. Love music, older country music is my go to everyday music but I do enjoy different kinds of music. I'm a big lyrics nut. I'm honest and loyal almost to a fault. Family oriented not into the gay scene. Not into hookups or open relationships. Just an old fashioned countryboy here. I enjoy the simple things in life. Hiking down a creek bed, slow dance around a campfire, long country drives, trail rides on a horse. I love animals and livestock. Florida Native but goal is to relocate, The rual area I was born and raised in has gotten way to crowded and the land way to expensive for my blood. I love living in the country definitely not a city boy. I'm more on the masculine side and like masculine men. Monogamy and moral integrity is a must have for me. Someone who knows what chivalry is. Someone that's looking for a life partner and that's not afraid to get married if it comes to that stage in the relationship. I'm definitely not your typical gay man. Looking forward to meeting a real man and a life partner to walk beside each other through life. Where we each do whatever it takes to make it in life and relationship.
Age: 55, male, looking for a long term relationship with a man in Ft. Myers, Florida, USA
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Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my
own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
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Age: 64, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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I live in one of the biggest cities in Europe, I would like to change my life: move to the
countryside, work with nature and be one with it. And I want to do it with some of the most gentle men in the world, cowboys. Strong, honest, hard-working and loving. I want to change my life with a new partner.
Age: 34, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Madrid, Comunidad de Madrid, SPAIN
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I can travel to you... or host in Palm Springs, CA
I love history, geography, art, languages, to read and to travel,
Also, into hiking, skiing, swimming. camping, out doors
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA
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Looking for a cowboy or rancher to tame me
Age: 35, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Grand Junction, Colorado, USA
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Howdy
Age: 74, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA
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I think I'm a good guy. Pretty good looking. Interested in fitness, outdoor activities, good food
and beers. Realizing most of my friends are work-related and hoping to find some non work friends. Willing to see where things go beyond that.
My politics are center-left. If you're a Trump supporter, MAGA, or Q, don't waste your time and move along.
Age: 62, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA
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In a perfect world you would move here and help me on the ranch. It would be good if you were
mechanical too. A love of plants , and cooking. It would not hurt if you were fuzzy as compared to smooth. But I can live with most things.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
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I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site
which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. That probably means someone who is retired, or can work from anywhere. I have fiber optic internet. Generally interested in men about forty and up. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
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Age: 76, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
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Casual friendship maybe more very active into the outdoors
Age: 77, male, looking for friends with a man in Syracuse, New York, USA
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Down to earth guy looking for real connection and relationship.
Age: 53, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Boulder, Colorado, USA
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Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA
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Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
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Recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish. Ethnicity:
"Scotch-Irish" (or whatever it was in Tennessee) on father's side, English/Flemish on mother's. Sexual mindset: Kinky. Religion: Protestant, somewhere between Episcopalian and Methodist. Politics: liberal who doesn't understand why believing in the equality of all under the law regardless of race, creed, gender, etc., a flexible and nonpartisan administrative state, a tax code progressive enough to discourage vast concentration of wealth, and vigorous and farsighted environmental and energy policies necessitates being a goddamn wimp who won't even defend his own positions let alone his life or property. Aesthetics: all over the place, as you would expect from someone whose favorite novel is Joyce's Ulysses and whose favorite filmmaker is John Ford. (And I don't even have the excuse of being Irish!) Frugal. Keeps appointments. Affectionate. Enthusiastic cook and overeater. Strictly social drinker. Non-smoker, though has considered taking up the pipe for the sheer looks of it. Swears. Can ride a little (Western, of course). Can host.
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next