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1.
Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
2.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
3.
Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
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Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
4.
I enjoy creating art, the outdoors, the rugged lifestyle, etc.
Age: 36, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
5.
Looking to meet other white or latin males for good times and maybe more and be pretty HWP, not
interested in fem or over weight guys. Willing to relocate for that special guy. I am pretty middle of the road politically. Don't be shy drop me a line for any questions and such.
Age: 56, male, looking for a man in Eastlake, Birmingham, Alabama, USA
6.
Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
7.
Masculine guy here that's pretty hairy, muscular, gotee. I'm looking for a quality guy that's
looking for something real, long term. Semi retired, I'm geo-flexible, now based in coastal GA. Nature lover, prefer country over city. Attracted to masc. guys that are fit and know how to love, have experience with dating and LTR. I'm a great kisser, easy going, affectionate and versatile in the sak.
Age: 60, male, looking for a man in Brunswick, Georgia, USA
8.
I've owned businesses, managed businesses, and worked as an independent contractor.
I've been a helicopter pilot, and piloted the 1912 Ford Model T Speedster in my garage. I'm relaxed in the desert, comfortable in the forest, and competent in the city.
What about you? Tell me about you, rather than asking what I'm here for. We'll get to that. If there's chemistry.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA
9.
I'm a Texan looking for other like minded men. Love to ride horses and go to rodeos. I didn't grow up a cowboy but have always been attracted to a good ol' country boy. I enjoy spending time at my uncles farm surrounded by horses, mules, goats, chickens, donkeys, etc. I would love to find someone to go for a ride with and then kick back with a cold one.
Age: 48, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Austin, Texas, USA
10.
I AM SEARCHING FOR A GUY WHO HAS INTELLIGENCE, WANDERLUST, AND A SENSE OF HUMOR. A FRIEND WHO IS
WILLING TO SHARE HIS FEELINGS, AND OPINIONS WITH TRUST. A MAN WHO IS STRONG, MASCULINE, AND CAN TAKE THE LEAD.WOULD LIKE TO COAST FOR AWHILE. NOT LOOKING FOR A SUGAR DAD.WOULD LIKE TO DEVELOP A SECURE FRIENDSHIP, AND TRUST BEFORE MOVING ON TO A RELATIONSHIP. I AM PROFESSIONALLY SELF-EMPLOYED, ALSO WORK IN THE PREFORMING ARTS-ACTOR.LIKE A MAN WHO IS SPONTANEOUS/ADVENTUROUS, AND APPRECIATES LIFE'S PLEASURES.
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Binghamton, New York, USA
12.
Laidback type single bi guy here...
Age: 55, male, looking for a man in Clay County, Mississippi, USA
13.
Not looking.....
Age: 70, male, looking for friends (only!) in Valparaiso, South Bend, Indiana, USA
14.
Recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish. Ethnicity:
"Scotch-Irish" (or whatever it was in Tennessee) on father's side, English/Flemish on mother's. Sexual mindset: Kinky. Religion: Protestant, somewhere between Episcopalian and Methodist. Politics: liberal who doesn't understand why believing in the equality of all under the law regardless of race, creed, gender, etc., a flexible and nonpartisan administrative state, a tax code progressive enough to discourage vast concentration of wealth, and vigorous and farsighted environmental and energy policies necessitates being a goddamn wimp who won't even defend his own positions let alone his life or property. Aesthetics: all over the place, as you would expect from someone whose favorite novel is Joyce's Ulysses and whose favorite filmmaker is John Ford. (And I don't even have the excuse of being Irish!) Frugal. Keeps appointments. Affectionate. Enthusiastic cook and overeater. Strictly social drinker. Non-smoker, though has considered taking up the pipe for the sheer looks of it. Swears. Can ride a little (Western, of course). Can host.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA
15.
Seeking a mature masculine man who is not into the bar scene and who enjoys the everyday country living atmosphere.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cameron County, Texas, USA
16.
I'm low maintenance and independent.
Age: 43, male, looking for a man in Niagara Region, Golden Horseshoe, Ontario, CANADA
17.
I just like to be myself and let others be themselves and see where it goes! I'm honest and genuine and am looking for likewise in a top as I am a big 'ol bottom!
Don't like posers and users or people with agendas! If you're none of these we'll get along fine! Not sure if true love or soulmates exist, change my mind! I'm kinda of shy and like alone time! Not into bar scenes although I do like a good drink! Maybe when the pandemic is over we can go out!
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
18.
Mature, Grounded, Like to Travel and cook … Non Smoker, Social Drinker, No Drugs, loves a Guy in
Wranglers and Boots. Looking for a long term Relationship,
Age: 63, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Houston, Harris County, Texas, USA
19.
I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
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Age: 74, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
20.
Wanted Bottom Man
Tested on December 13 no STD's or HIV. I am 68, six foot two inches, 218 lbs., salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, beard, slightly hairy body, eight inches cut d/d/s free, nudist, top, discreet.
Age: 68, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA
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1.
Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
2.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
3.
Mature man looking for same to develop a good, genuine friendship and trusted confidant around my own age. My ultimate desire is to establish a long term relationship, hopefully the friendship would develop into it, if we decide to go there. Looking for someone who can communicate openly and honestly. If we become intimate during that development that's fine too. Ready and willing to take a chance on developing a friendship first and see what develops from there.
...
Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Northwest, Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
4.
I enjoy creating art, the outdoors, the rugged lifestyle, etc.
Age: 36, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
5.
Looking to meet other white or latin males for good times and maybe more and be pretty HWP, not
interested in fem or over weight guys. Willing to relocate for that special guy. I am pretty middle of the road politically. Don't be shy drop me a line for any questions and such.
Age: 56, male, looking for a man in Eastlake, Birmingham, Alabama, USA
6.
Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
7.
Masculine guy here that's pretty hairy, muscular, gotee. I'm looking for a quality guy that's
looking for something real, long term. Semi retired, I'm geo-flexible, now based in coastal GA. Nature lover, prefer country over city. Attracted to masc. guys that are fit and know how to love, have experience with dating and LTR. I'm a great kisser, easy going, affectionate and versatile in the sak.
Age: 60, male, looking for a man in Brunswick, Georgia, USA
8.
I've owned businesses, managed businesses, and worked as an independent contractor.
I've been a helicopter pilot, and piloted the 1912 Ford Model T Speedster in my garage. I'm relaxed in the desert, comfortable in the forest, and competent in the city.
What about you? Tell me about you, rather than asking what I'm here for. We'll get to that. If there's chemistry.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA
9.
I'm a Texan looking for other like minded men. Love to ride horses and go to rodeos. I didn't grow up a cowboy but have always been attracted to a good ol' country boy. I enjoy spending time at my uncles farm surrounded by horses, mules, goats, chickens, donkeys, etc. I would love to find someone to go for a ride with and then kick back with a cold one.
Age: 48, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Austin, Texas, USA
10.
I AM SEARCHING FOR A GUY WHO HAS INTELLIGENCE, WANDERLUST, AND A SENSE OF HUMOR. A FRIEND WHO IS
WILLING TO SHARE HIS FEELINGS, AND OPINIONS WITH TRUST. A MAN WHO IS STRONG, MASCULINE, AND CAN TAKE THE LEAD.WOULD LIKE TO COAST FOR AWHILE. NOT LOOKING FOR A SUGAR DAD.WOULD LIKE TO DEVELOP A SECURE FRIENDSHIP, AND TRUST BEFORE MOVING ON TO A RELATIONSHIP. I AM PROFESSIONALLY SELF-EMPLOYED, ALSO WORK IN THE PREFORMING ARTS-ACTOR.LIKE A MAN WHO IS SPONTANEOUS/ADVENTUROUS, AND APPRECIATES LIFE'S PLEASURES.
Age: 59, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Binghamton, New York, USA
12.
Laidback type single bi guy here...
Age: 55, male, looking for a man in Clay County, Mississippi, USA
13.
Not looking.....
Age: 70, male, looking for friends (only!) in Valparaiso, South Bend, Indiana, USA
14.
Recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish. Ethnicity:
"Scotch-Irish" (or whatever it was in Tennessee) on father's side, English/Flemish on mother's. Sexual mindset: Kinky. Religion: Protestant, somewhere between Episcopalian and Methodist. Politics: liberal who doesn't understand why believing in the equality of all under the law regardless of race, creed, gender, etc., a flexible and nonpartisan administrative state, a tax code progressive enough to discourage vast concentration of wealth, and vigorous and farsighted environmental and energy policies necessitates being a goddamn wimp who won't even defend his own positions let alone his life or property. Aesthetics: all over the place, as you would expect from someone whose favorite novel is Joyce's Ulysses and whose favorite filmmaker is John Ford. (And I don't even have the excuse of being Irish!) Frugal. Keeps appointments. Affectionate. Enthusiastic cook and overeater. Strictly social drinker. Non-smoker, though has considered taking up the pipe for the sheer looks of it. Swears. Can ride a little (Western, of course). Can host.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA
15.
Seeking a mature masculine man who is not into the bar scene and who enjoys the everyday country living atmosphere.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cameron County, Texas, USA
16.
I'm low maintenance and independent.
Age: 43, male, looking for a man in Niagara Region, Golden Horseshoe, Ontario, CANADA
17.
I just like to be myself and let others be themselves and see where it goes! I'm honest and genuine and am looking for likewise in a top as I am a big 'ol bottom!
Don't like posers and users or people with agendas! If you're none of these we'll get along fine! Not sure if true love or soulmates exist, change my mind! I'm kinda of shy and like alone time! Not into bar scenes although I do like a good drink! Maybe when the pandemic is over we can go out!
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
18.
Mature, Grounded, Like to Travel and cook … Non Smoker, Social Drinker, No Drugs, loves a Guy in
Wranglers and Boots. Looking for a long term Relationship,
Age: 63, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Houston, Harris County, Texas, USA
19.
I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
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Age: 74, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
20.
Wanted Bottom Man
Tested on December 13 no STD's or HIV. I am 68, six foot two inches, 218 lbs., salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, beard, slightly hairy body, eight inches cut d/d/s free, nudist, top, discreet.
Age: 68, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Avon, Rochester, New York, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next