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Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA 
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
Age: 63, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Pennsylvania, USA
Age: 73, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Mooresville, Morgan County, Indiana, USA
Age: 18, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Poplar Bluff, Missouri, USA
Age: 28, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA
Age: 50, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Age: 25, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Mexico City, Federal District, MEXICO 
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in Cambria, San Luis Obispo County, California, USA
Age: 76, male, looking for a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Ferndale, Whatcom County, Washington, USA
Age: 65, male, looking for friends with a man in Three Hills, Alberta, CANADA 
Age: 55, male, looking for friends with a man in Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Albany, New York, USA
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About me:
I’m calm, reliable, and very easy to sit next to. I build trust fast and keep my life simple on purpose. I’m drawn to older, grounded men and I value companionship over chemistry fireworks.
I like shared routines: coffee, quiet evenings, good conversation, the comfort of being in the same room without needing to fill the silence. I’m very much a “side-by-side” person.
Western gear isn’t a costume for me — it’s home. Boots, denim, bolo ties, and a slower pace suit me just fine. I enjoy a smoke now and then and appreciate places where people linger instead of rush.
What I’m looking for:
A peaceful partnership with a man who’s settled in himself. Someone who enjoys closeness without pressure — sitting together, maybe sharing a couch or a bed in pajamas, not racing toward anything sexual.
Sex isn’t the center for me. Affection can exist without escalation. If you’re high-libido or need constant physical intensity, we probably won’t fit — no hard feelings.
Ideal time together looks like:
Weekday evenings, coffee or a drink, quiet talk, shared space. Life lived calmly, not loudly.
Deal-breakers:
Rushing intimacy, sexual pressure, drama, or needing me to be someone else.
Green flags:
My age or older, steady, patient, comfortable with silence, appreciates tradition and ritual.
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
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I enjoy creating art, the outdoors, the rugged lifestyle, etc.
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA
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Masculine overeducated redneck who grew up on a dairy farm.
Age: 63, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Pennsylvania, USA
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HAPPY NEW YEAR 2026
My New Year 2026 celebration began Wednesday at 11:30 a.m. and lasted until Friday at 7:00 a.m. The 44 hour marathon included delicious food and drink of pizza, shrimp, ham, salami, assorted cheeses, cocktails, wine and desserts served poolside as I swam in an indoor heated pool. I enjoyed being all alone in the pool for 30 minutes before the other party guests splashed in.
Later I dried off and donned my comfy flannel pajamas and sipped champagne as I watched the Times Square activities and ball drop.
I was able to squeeze in six hours of sleep early Thursday morning then climbed out of a warm bed and consumed a delicious New Year Day brunch of oven warm croissants wrapped around savory sausage served with intoxicatingly aromatic French press coffee.
New Year's Day, Thursday, was spent leisurely visiting with other party guests and enjoying sparkling conversations with more fantastic food and desserts.
It was a great way to start the New Year with friends and delectable delicacies.
Here I am flying high in my party hat and beads prior to pool submersion.
Fidus Achates
Age: 73, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Mooresville, Morgan County, Indiana, USA
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I'm looking for a man that's about my age and willing to have a long distance relationship while I
finish my course at the Missouri Welding Institute. I am looking for a man that is okay with long-distance relationships. I took a VoTech class in high school and am certified in welding, forklift operation, and OSHA certified. Phone number is 573-527-7549.
Age: 18, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Poplar Bluff, Missouri, USA
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Looking for guys that would not mind talking from time to time
And form a friendship and maybe more
Age: 28, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA 
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All man. Not out. Looking for the same. Grew up farming. Wrestled in HS and college. Professional
now. Love all hunting except duck, fishing, camping, sports. Seeking one exclusive friend.
Age: 50, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in St. Louis, Missouri, USA
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Age: 25, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Mexico City, Federal District, MEXICO
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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Looking for friendships and more to enjoy adventures , travel , athletics , exercise and intimate
bonding that comes with friendship and shared interests. hwy1 of central coast of California . Going to be reaching out and saying hello to guys that interest me . Be a champ and say hello as well .
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in Cambria, San Luis Obispo County, California, USA
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I am bttm hairy guy. Just looking for a hot cowboy top open to relocating. get back at
onenorthern69 at the hot mail dot com.
Age: 76, male, looking for a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Ferndale, Whatcom County, Washington, USA
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Country and a cowboy, Love live stock, horses and hard working people.
Age: 65, male, looking for friends with a man in Three Hills, Alberta, CANADA
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I'm a Christian Man...looking for some special friends and soul-mates.
Born and raised in dairy farming country of Wisconsin. That is my humble roots. Love all things Nature. Adventuresome Woodsman, hunter, explorer.
I like working out with weights to stay muscular, fit and strong. 6'4" 230, 50" chest, 34" waist, 19.5" arms, 7% body fat, no man-scaping (hairy where Men should be hairy).
I don't smoke, chew or vape and not into heavy drinking or recreational drugs. I eat clean and Organic for the most part.
Living in NM now.
Age: 55, male, looking for friends with a man in Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
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Looking for a Relationship , sex.
I’m very fit, farm chores, riding horses, biking daily, hiking with my Great Pyrenees dogs, swimming, and lifting weights. I’m ripped, in shape. Lift weights. Do farm chores. Have ridden horses since I was born. Internationally known equestrian artist, breeder, and trainer.
Age: 62, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Albany, New York, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next