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Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA 
Age: 31, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Mesa, Arizona, USA
Age: 39, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in Asheville, North Carolina, USA
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Pennsylvania, USA
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
Age: 55, male, looking for a man in Mascot, Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA 
Age: 41, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Hermosillo, Sonora, MEXICO 
Age: 68, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Alamogordo, New Mexico, USA
Age: 24, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Grand Prairie, Alberta, CANADA 
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Houston, Texas, USA
Age: 74, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA
Age: 28, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA
Age: 35, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Grand Junction, Colorado, USA
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Jacksonville, Florida, USA
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Stevens Point Wi, Rural Area, Wisconsin, USA
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA
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If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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Looking for a cowboy who ain't afraid of roping a brat (sometimes literally), and putting me in my
place. Looking for a good time, and for a possible relationship.
Age: 31, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Mesa, Arizona, USA
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NEW
And I’m a very affectionate person, I love to show someone how I feel not just telling them.
Age: 39, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in Asheville, North Carolina, USA
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About me:
I’m calm, reliable, and very easy to sit next to. I build trust fast and keep my life simple on purpose. I’m drawn to older, grounded men and I value companionship over chemistry fireworks.
I like shared routines: coffee, quiet evenings, good conversation, the comfort of being in the same room without needing to fill the silence. I’m very much a “side-by-side” person.
Western gear isn’t a costume for me — it’s home. Boots, denim, bolo ties, and a slower pace suit me just fine. I enjoy a smoke now and then and appreciate places where people linger instead of rush.
What I’m looking for:
A peaceful partnership with a man who’s settled in himself. Someone who enjoys closeness without pressure — sitting together, maybe sharing a couch or a bed in pajamas, not racing toward anything sexual.
Sex isn’t the center for me. Affection can exist without escalation. If you’re high-libido or need constant physical intensity, we probably won’t fit — no hard feelings.
Ideal time together looks like:
Weekday evenings, coffee or a drink, quiet talk, shared space. Life lived calmly, not loudly.
Deal-breakers:
Rushing intimacy, sexual pressure, drama, or needing me to be someone else.
Green flags:
My age or older, steady, patient, comfortable with silence, appreciates tradition and ritual.
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
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Masculine overeducated redneck who grew up on a dairy farm.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends (only!) with a man in Pennsylvania, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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I’m a single man looking for a long term relationship, who’s into motorbikes, cowboys, trucks,
hunting
Age: 55, male, looking for a man in Mascot, Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
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Age: 41, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Hermosillo, Sonora, MEXICO
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Since retiring in July 2021 I have got in better shape by keeping active . I used to weigh 194
before retiring and now I weigh 162 and went from a 36 waist down to a 31 waist . I am married to a nice man and we are looking to meet up with RVers truckers , cowboys , regular men , blue collar workers or retired men for friendship and if the chemistry is there we enjoy 3ways so if you are interested we are just off Hwy 70 on the west side of Alamogordo so get in contact if you are driving by and hopefully we can meet and play . We enjoy leather gear and I also enjoy erotic play wrestling in wrestling singlets , jocks , speedos and tight fitting jeans and also love taking photos
Age: 68, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Alamogordo, New Mexico, USA
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Mid 20s Alberta guy into music, outdoors, and adventures and searching for my cowboy to share it
with
Age: 24, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Grand Prairie, Alberta, CANADA
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Normal Guy Here Who likes to gear Up in Cowboy Wear, Cowboys are hot and Manly, I go commando in my
tight wranglers, I’m proud of what I got hanging and showing it, would love to share that passion fucking outdoors, Against a fence, a Pickup bed or in a Barn, or getting fucked, My Pictures are up to date..
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Houston, Texas, USA
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Howdy
Age: 74, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Fergus Falls, Rural Area, Minnesota, USA
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Looking for guys that would not mind talking from time to time
And form a friendship and maybe more
Age: 28, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA
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Looking for a cowboy or rancher to tame me
Age: 35, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Grand Junction, Colorado, USA
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but I long for a long term intimate relationship. I baby bold brash direct blunt but I'm an open book. I know when to mind in my manners. I know when I can cut.loose. I don't fear anything. I accept the occurrences that can happen. Except pleasures that come my way. I don't deny myself fun along the road to enlightenment. I'm semi-retired and working on my photography gallery looking to also get into videography. I'm also a creative writer jotting down short stories of my life experiences. I plan to write a book about the adventure and all the characters who played part in it. My head is often in the clouds and I'm always looking for that partner in crime open to share and experience that special space with me. I'm a simple guy and yet I'm a complex and blunt Aquarian and I suspect it would take a very open-minded individual to understand me. I'm loyal, devoted and trustworthy to a fault though it fills me with pride and with that I have a lot to offer the right guy. I hope he comes along soon while I still have some life in me. I'm 45 in my mind and I'm more active than most 45 year olds I know so that's a blessing. I'm a hopeless romantic yet not corny, love affection, some attention, morning coffee, good dinners, proper manners ( a Bostonian after all), laughter, anything furniture, photography, history, the company of friends, the outdoors, anything outdoors, hiking, biking, camping, 'urban hunting' and the beach at night and that goes for the desert, as well. I like life in nighttime mode. It's quieter, less hectic, and liberating. If I could find a guy who would enjoy these things shared as well I'd be grateful as I am with every day that comes. Life is good.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Jacksonville, Florida, USA
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I've always loved the country, Grew up on a big farm-Big family, Love being outdoors. Woods-Streams-Animals.
Being free. But love to hold a man close once in awhile-In boots-chaps.levis - And that manly scent. Just love life.
And will always be young and spirited. And the men must be in boots ,And be a boot lover as I am.
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Stevens Point Wi, Rural Area, Wisconsin, USA
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Recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish. Ethnicity:
"Scotch-Irish" (or whatever it was in Tennessee) on father's side, English/Flemish on mother's. Sexual mindset: Kinky. Religion: Protestant, somewhere between Episcopalian and Methodist. Politics: liberal who doesn't understand why believing in the equality of all under the law regardless of race, creed, gender, etc., a flexible and nonpartisan administrative state, a tax code progressive enough to discourage vast concentration of wealth, and vigorous and farsighted environmental and energy policies necessitates being a goddamn wimp who won't even defend his own positions let alone his life or property. Aesthetics: all over the place, as you would expect from someone whose favorite novel is Joyce's Ulysses and whose favorite filmmaker is John Ford. (And I don't even have the excuse of being Irish!) Frugal. Keeps appointments. Affectionate. Enthusiastic cook and overeater. Strictly social drinker. Non-smoker, though has considered taking up the pipe for the sheer looks of it. Swears. Can ride a little (Western, of course). Can host.
Age: 66, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next