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Age: 46, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Valdosta, Georgia, USA 
Age: 67, male, looking for a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA 
Age: 29, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA 
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA 
Age: 62, male, looking for dating with a man in Santa Barbara, California, USA 
Age: 68, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA 
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA 
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in Mitchell, South Dakota, USA 
Age: 56, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Edmonton, Alberta, CANADA 
Age: 76, male, looking for a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Ferndale, Whatcom County, Washington, USA 
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Bradford, West Yorkshire, UK 
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA 
Age: 45, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Dallas, Texas, USA 
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA 
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA 
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA 
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Just a regular guy, looking for a relationship.
Age: 46, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Valdosta, Georgia, USA 
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Easy going, laid back country boy here looking for similar. Be nice to find a guy that likes the wide open spaces, horses, cattle, dogs and other livestock.
Age: 67, male, looking for a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA 
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Looking for guys that would not mind talking from time to time
And form a friendship and maybe more
Age: 29, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Haskell County, Kansas, USA 
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I am a gay man 55, rural guy who ranches for a living, looking for a man to join me. Thinking about
the possibility of a small gay commune here on the ranch for gay men that are not into the urban life, but still like the company of other gay men. Let me know your thoughts.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Wheatland, Wyoming, USA 
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sbp frottage
not many of us
Age: 62, male, looking for dating with a man in Santa Barbara, California, USA 
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Married over 45 years, Christian, g0y, decent, clean, conservative. Looking for a lasting
friendship, not just hookups. I don't consider myself that good looking, but I have been told by some men that I am. I have also been told that I am a good kisser. I enjoy that kind of intimate feeling with a man. Especially if I find him attractive, but also if we just connect as friends where we have respect and affection for each other. I like to hike and would love a hiking buddy. I realize that I am very limited being married and any potential friend must be kept a secret. My marriage has been sexless since 1988 and I have only been meeting men since 2015.
Age: 68, male, looking for friends with a man in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, USA 
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If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA 
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Gay cowboy looki for same with same likes etcs but start out as friends first
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating with a man in Mitchell, South Dakota, USA 
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NEW
Very laid back masculine man. Trapped in life as a straight guy and raised my own kids and other
peoples too. I have the patience of Job and not usual in almost every way. I don’t judge but please respect what I respect and that is people matter but they’re not all for me. I m not fathered by a Clydesdale so not hung like one. If your a size queen you can get off the bus now. I prefer masculine men and not feminine. Working man has already got a 5/10. I’ll be a bottom for the right man. No desire to top and I’d love a man that loves to be woken up and receding a bj instead of an alarm clock. Very romantic and beyond loyal. If you went to war and were gone 5 years, I’d be waiting. And you can trust nobody has played with you’re toys. Hit me up. Take a chance.
Age: 56, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Edmonton, Alberta, CANADA 
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I am bttm hairy guy. Just looking for a hot cowboy top open to relocating. get back at
onenorthern69 at the hot mail dot com.
Age: 76, male, looking for a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Ferndale, Whatcom County, Washington, USA 
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My name's Michael and over 60. Please do not ask for my email address or telephone number - you
won't get them. If you're genuine, we'll continue communicating on here until we're both comfortable with each other! I live in a small town near two big cities but would be happier in the middle of nowhere growing my own food, livestock and company. Only thing missing is someone with whom I can share it.
Looking, primarily, for friendship though not afraid of finding a long term relationship but not desperate to get one or flit from one relationship to another trying to find "the One". I'm a widower (civil partnership) and have been on my own since 2010 so am happy with my own company. It's nice to make friends and spread the joy whether that be via e-mail, skype, etc. I've piled on the pounds lately and have just started doing something about it. I suppose I could be described as a typical bear type though there's more to me that that and would rather know for me rather than "the look" as that often leads to more disappointment. Very much into arts and crafts, archery, playing music, baking and cookery. Currently a Civil Servant but nor afraid of getting my hands dirty - I worked as a teenager on a farm. For now, take good care, thanks for reading this far and all the very best for the future.
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Bradford, West Yorkshire, UK 
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and, since my last breakup in 2020, "Mountains of the Heart"
( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ... "She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
"Dust on the Barbed Wire" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
"Jealous of the Moon" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA 
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Open to the possiblity of finding someone special and making friends.
Age: 45, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Dallas, Texas, USA 
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I am probably the worst person you can meet. ;)But other than that, here are the basics.
I am:
• 5'11"
• 59 years of time on this planet
• 265# but working on getting it down to around 225#. Want to help a guy out?
• Grey hair
• Brown eyes.
• I have a furry belly :)
• Non-smoker. (But I do not get bothered by smokers)
• Don't do drugs.
• Incredibly shy
• Learning to live life
SEXUALLY:
• I am a bottom.
• Not very well experienced
• Not well endowed (Hung like a tic-tac ;) )
• I like shower/bath sex. (lets get dirty and clean at the same time! ;) )
• I also enjoy a bit of frotage (clothing on).
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The Details:
If you're interested in hooking up, that probably will not happen. Sex isn't the main goal for me. Besides as stated above, I am not well endowed. It's pretty darn small (3"~4" hard), and that is why I prefer to be a bottom.
I also find sex with clothes on . . or in the shower or bath . . can be unique and fun. I also like to give oral (Reciprocation is not needed).
I tend to be a bit shy and naive, so if you are interested and seem sincere, you will need to have a public place and time in mind to meet at first before the considerations of anything else will happen.
So if you managed to read through all this, Hurrah! You might as well respond now, and say hi. (And I don't mean to literally write to me with the word "Hi" and say nothing else.) You don't need to carry on like I just did ... but please put some of your sparkling personality in your message.
Or don't.
See if I care.
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA 
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I enjoy creating art, the outdoors, the rugged lifestyle, etc.
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or intimate encounters with a man in Rock Island, Illinois, USA 
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About me:
I’m calm, reliable, and very easy to sit next to. I build trust fast and keep my life simple on purpose. I’m drawn to older, grounded men and I value companionship over chemistry fireworks.
I like shared routines: coffee, quiet evenings, good conversation, the comfort of being in the same room without needing to fill the silence. I’m very much a “side-by-side” person.
Western gear isn’t a costume for me — it’s home. Boots, denim, bolo ties, and a slower pace suit me just fine. I enjoy a smoke now and then and appreciate places where people linger instead of rush.
What I’m looking for:
A peaceful partnership with a man who’s settled in himself. Someone who enjoys closeness without pressure — sitting together by a bonfire, that kind of thing.
Sex isn’t happening with me. Affection can exist without escalation. If you’re high-libido or need constant physical intensity, we probably won’t fit — no hard feelings.
Ideal time together looks like:
Weekday evenings, coffee or a drink, quiet talk, shared space. Life lived calmly, not loudly.
Deal-breakers:
Needing intimacy/sex, drama, or needing me to be someone else.
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA 
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