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Age: 46, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Valdosta, Georgia, USA 
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
Age: 40, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in El Paso County, Colorado, USA
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA 
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
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Age: 65, male, looking for friends with a man in Missouri City, Fort Bend County, Texas, USA
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA 
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Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
Age: 66, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Bradford, West Yorkshire, UK 
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Just a regular guy, looking for a relationship.
Age: 46, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Valdosta, Georgia, USA
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If you don't read my profile before contacting me, don't expect a response.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 70, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
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A buddy to go to the shooting range with, or go cast a line at the lake. If he wants to tag along and act as my assistant/"groom" or visa versa at a horse show would be awesome too. Really anything other than "flying solo" around El Paso and Elbert County would be nice.
Age: 40, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in El Paso County, Colorado, USA
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I am shy and inexperienced. I am a professional guy with rural roots. I enjoy gaming, reading, road
trips, music, and tv. I love winter and winter gear like coveralls. Guys in coveralls turn me on; naked or d*ck pics do not.
I’m looking for friendship first. I’d like to find my best friend. I definitely am looking for someone who also likes winter and winter clothes! Additionally, someone who shares some of my other interests would be great.
I don’t smoke or use drugs and am a light drinker. I’m looking for someone who also doesn’t smoke or use drugs.
Age: 53, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA
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In a perfect world you would move here and help me on the ranch. It would be good if you were
mechanical too. A love of plants , and cooking. It would not hurt if you were fuzzy as compared to smooth. But I can live with most things.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
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Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 61, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
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I cowboyed some in my younger days but bailed out for a bit because I wanted to know and experience
more. I’m well traveled and educated. I enjoy a healthy lifestyle. I’m physically active. I read. I’m a boot, wrangler guy and have been damn near all my life. I wear a hat like it’s a part of me because it is and it is firmly seated on my head. I got a hankering for cowboys, men who take care of themselves, others and who are kind to their animals. Looking for a country/cowboy man 40+ who shares a passion for all things cowboy wild to mild and who wants to explore more what this life has to offer. Social liberal fiscal conservative here. Be kind. It’s is a turn on. Live within your means because it keeps you honest. Taking care of yourself keeps you sane. Don’t drink but don’t care if you do. Dip some. HMU and see where it goes.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Fort Worth, Texas, USA
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Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and, since my last breakup in 2020, "Mountains of the Heart"
( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ... "She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
"Dust on the Barbed Wire" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
"Jealous of the Moon" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 73, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
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About me:
I’m calm, reliable, and very easy to sit next to. I build trust fast and keep my life simple on purpose. I’m drawn to older, grounded men and I value companionship over chemistry fireworks.
I like shared routines: coffee, quiet evenings, good conversation, the comfort of being in the same room without needing to fill the silence. I’m very much a “side-by-side” person.
Western gear isn’t a costume for me — it’s home. Boots, denim, bolo ties, and a slower pace suit me just fine. I enjoy a smoke now and then and appreciate places where people linger instead of rush.
What I’m looking for:
A peaceful partnership with a man who’s settled in himself. Someone who enjoys closeness without pressure — sitting together by a bonfire, that kind of thing.
Sex isn’t happening with me. Affection can exist without escalation. If you’re high-libido or need constant physical intensity, we probably won’t fit — no hard feelings.
Ideal time together looks like:
Weekday evenings, coffee or a drink, quiet talk, shared space. Life lived calmly, not loudly.
Deal-breakers:
Needing intimacy/sex, drama, or needing me to be someone else.
Age: 38, male, looking for a man in Wyoming, USA
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I think I'm a good guy. Pretty good looking. Interested in fitness, outdoor activities, good food
and beers. Realizing most of my friends are work-related and hoping to find some non work friends. Willing to see where things go beyond that.
My politics are center-left. If you're a Trump supporter, MAGA, or Q, don't waste your time and move along.
Age: 63, male, looking for friends with a man in Madison, Wisconsin, USA
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Cowboy into rope bondage fetish. I love to be tied up. Pretty private guy (parnered). I love a
cowboy that want to dom me. I love verbal domination. Hit me up if you want to chat. I have a crazy schedule, but if we meet up for drinks and the chemistry clicks, who knows, maybe we'll even rodeo. WOOF! *****
I do like to write cowboy stories if you are interested in getting a hard-on by reading - check it out! *****
http://cowboylust.blogspot.com/ *****
Enjoy!
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Age: 65, male, looking for friends with a man in Missouri City, Fort Bend County, Texas, USA
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Howdy, I'm a single country guy, 6ft, 210 lbs, love the country/western lifestyle and culture,
looking to meet the same for friendship, dates and am open to a serious ltr if the right guy comes along. I have a wide variety of interests, including the gym, love country music and dancing, rodeos and much more. A guy who wears his spurs is definately the guy for me. Love a guy who is my height or ttaller, masculine, friendly with a good sense of humour. Im allergic to smokers so prefer a non smoker! I love to travel, distance not a problem for the right guy, very mobile
Age: 54, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA
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Average fit guy. Truckers fan looking for friends, good conversation, fun outdoors activity.
Age: 70, male, looking for friends with a man in Florence, Alabama, USA
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I work as a third shift manager at a Ford assembly plant....although that will change as I'm taking the same job but going to the great white north of Canada. I love sports, especially football and basketball. Love movies and plays. Enjoy country music, classic rock, swing music and some classical. Love dancing,....swing and country are my favorites. I do some line dancing, I love the tush push and the wobble (don't laugh).
My big thing involving dancing is when it gets close and dirty....I love shadow dancing...
Age: 51, male, looking for friends or dating or intimate encounters with a man in Indiana, USA
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I can travel to you... or host in Palm Springs, CA
I love history, geography, art, languages, to read and to travel,
Also, into hiking, skiing, swimming. camping, out doors
Age: 63, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Palm Springs, California, USA
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I just like to be myself and let others be themselves and see where it goes! I'm honest and genuine and am looking for likewise in a top as I am a big 'ol bottom!
Don't like posers and users or people with agendas! If you're none of these we'll get along fine! Not sure if true love or soulmates exist, change my mind! I'm kinda of shy and like alone time! Not into bar scenes although I do like a good drink! Maybe when the pandemic is over we can go out!
Age: 60, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
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I grew up on a small farm in rural New Mexico and everything about that experience remains part of
me, right down into my DNA, even though I may have lived in other settings since that time.
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Age: 66, male, looking for dating or a long term relationship with a man in Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
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My name's Michael and over 60. Please do not ask for my email address or telephone number - you
won't get them. If you're genuine, we'll continue communicating on here until we're both comfortable with each other! I live in a small town near two big cities but would be happier in the middle of nowhere growing my own food, livestock and company. Only thing missing is someone with whom I can share it.
Looking, primarily, for friendship though not afraid of finding a long term relationship but not desperate to get one or flit from one relationship to another trying to find "the One". I'm a widower (civil partnership) and have been on my own since 2010 so am happy with my own company. It's nice to make friends and spread the joy whether that be via e-mail, skype, etc. I've piled on the pounds lately and have just started doing something about it. I suppose I could be described as a typical bear type though there's more to me that that and would rather know for me rather than "the look" as that often leads to more disappointment. Very much into arts and crafts, archery, playing music, baking and cookery. Currently a Civil Servant but nor afraid of getting my hands dirty - I worked as a teenager on a farm. For now, take good care, thanks for reading this far and all the very best for the future.
Age: 62, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Bradford, West Yorkshire, UK Page 1 ⋅ Next