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1.
Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
4.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
5.
I am shy and inexperienced. I am a professional guy with rural roots. I enjoy gaming, reading, road
trips, music, and tv. I love winter and winter gear like coveralls. Guys in coveralls turn me on; naked or d*ck pics do not.
I’m looking for friendship first. I’d like to find my best friend. I definitely am looking for someone who also likes winter and winter clothes! Additionally, someone who shares some of my other interests would be great.
I don’t smoke or use drugs and am a light drinker. I’m looking for someone who also doesn’t smoke or use drugs.
Age: 51, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA
6.
Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
7.
Masculine guy here that's pretty hairy, muscular, gotee. I'm looking for a quality guy that's
looking for something real, long term. Semi retired, I'm geo-flexible, now based in coastal GA. Nature lover, prefer country over city. Attracted to masc. guys that are fit and know how to love, have experience with dating and LTR. I'm a great kisser, easy going, affectionate and versatile in the sak.
Age: 60, male, looking for a man in Brunswick, Georgia, USA
8.
Tall (6’4), mature, masculine, and secure. I’m very comfortable and confident in my own skin.
Not into any kind of drama, and expect the same. Interested In older masculine and preferably hairy men over 50 to see what develops. Please note: You must be able to carry on an intelligent conversation and be financially secure (as I am). Facial hair is a MUST. Mustaches go to the front of the line, as do men with a good and witty sense of humor! I’m an AVID car nut and ideally would like to find a man that shares the same passion. However; this is certainly not a requirement. Don’t be shy, say hello.
Age: 40, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Modesto, California, USA
9.
I've owned businesses, managed businesses, and worked as an independent contractor.
I've been a helicopter pilot, and piloted the 1912 Ford Model T Speedster in my garage. I'm relaxed in the desert, comfortable in the forest, and competent in the city.
What about you? Tell me about you, rather than asking what I'm here for. We'll get to that. If there's chemistry.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA
10.
I'm a Texan looking for other like minded men. Love to ride horses and go to rodeos. I didn't grow up a cowboy but have always been attracted to a good ol' country boy. I enjoy spending time at my uncles farm surrounded by horses, mules, goats, chickens, donkeys, etc. I would love to find someone to go for a ride with and then kick back with a cold one.
Age: 48, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Austin, Texas, USA
11.
A buddy to go to the shooting range with, or go cast a line at the lake. If he wants to tag along and act as my assistant/"groom" or visa versa at a horse show would be awesome too. Really anything other than "flying solo" around El Paso and Elbert County would be nice.
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in El Paso County, Colorado, USA
12.
In a perfect world you would move here and help me on the ranch. It would be good if you were
mechanical too. A love of plants , and cooking. It would not hurt if you were fuzzy as compared to smooth. But I can live with most things.
Age: 65, male, looking for dating with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
13.
Not looking.....
Age: 70, male, looking for friends (only!) in Valparaiso, South Bend, Indiana, USA
14.
Cowboy into rope bondage fetish. I love to be tied up. Pretty private guy (parnered). I love a
cowboy that want to dom me. I love verbal domination. Hit me up if you want to chat. I have a crazy schedule, but if we meet up for drinks and the chemistry clicks, who knows, maybe we'll even rodeo. WOOF! *****
I do like to write cowboy stories if you are interested in getting a hard-on by reading - check it out! *****
http://cowboylust.blogspot.com/ *****
Enjoy!
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boot lick
bondage
cowboy
handcuffs
lasso
rodeo
rope
slave
tied-up
Age: 62, male, looking for friends with a man in Missouri City, Fort Bend County, Texas, USA
15.
Recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish. Ethnicity:
"Scotch-Irish" (or whatever it was in Tennessee) on father's side, English/Flemish on mother's. Sexual mindset: Kinky. Religion: Protestant, somewhere between Episcopalian and Methodist. Politics: liberal who doesn't understand why believing in the equality of all under the law regardless of race, creed, gender, etc., a flexible and nonpartisan administrative state, a tax code progressive enough to discourage vast concentration of wealth, and vigorous and farsighted environmental and energy policies necessitates being a goddamn wimp who won't even defend his own positions let alone his life or property. Aesthetics: all over the place, as you would expect from someone whose favorite novel is Joyce's Ulysses and whose favorite filmmaker is John Ford. (And I don't even have the excuse of being Irish!) Frugal. Keeps appointments. Affectionate. Enthusiastic cook and overeater. Strictly social drinker. Non-smoker, though has considered taking up the pipe for the sheer looks of it. Swears. Can ride a little (Western, of course). Can host.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA
16.
Seeking a mature masculine man who is not into the bar scene and who enjoys the everyday country living atmosphere.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cameron County, Texas, USA
17.
I'm low maintenance and independent.
Age: 43, male, looking for a man in Niagara Region, Golden Horseshoe, Ontario, CANADA
18.
Howdy, single country guy, 6ft, 210 lbs, height/weight proportionate, love the country/western
lifestyle looking to meet the same for friendship primarily, dating and even open to a LTR when the right guy comes along. I let things happen naturally based on chemistry, mutual interests and connection. Not a one time random hook up kind of guy, I like some sort of connection first. I'm an easy going, friendly, approachable and normal "no attitude" guy with a wide variety of interests, including the gym, love country music and dancing, rodeos and much more. Love to travel and my future travel plans including visiting Texas (Dallas/Fort Worth, Austin, San Antonio and Houston) so guys from that state are certainly welcome to contact me as well as from anywhere else. Love a guy who is masculine, friendly with a good sense of humour. If you liked what you read, shoot me a message. Let's get to know each other.
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA
19.
I just like to be myself and let others be themselves and see where it goes! I'm honest and genuine and am looking for likewise in a top as I am a big 'ol bottom!
Don't like posers and users or people with agendas! If you're none of these we'll get along fine! Not sure if true love or soulmates exist, change my mind! I'm kinda of shy and like alone time! Not into bar scenes although I do like a good drink! Maybe when the pandemic is over we can go out!
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
20.
I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
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Age: 74, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA
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1.
Thinking hard over life itself, getting to be a long one now of living in the wildlands without a
whole lot of gay male companionship. I'm deeply integrated into this remote rural community of ranchers and artists and retired professors who (mostly) don't care if I'm gay but take the attitude "He may be a queer cowboy, but he's OUR queer cowboy." I'm granted housing on this outfit in my retirement and put lots of time into the garden here that has maybe the most beautiful view of any in all the Southwest & I sure love to share it. I can grow about anything, from beef to orchids.
A few songs by Dave Stamey mean a whole lot to me, at this stage of my life on this range: "The Circle" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6VtbnweZJU ) and "A Song for Jake" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ou03RSyVkso ) and it still not being long since my last breakup, "Mountains of the Heart" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3QXqQM_ypw )
and--songs that apply to two men trying to stay together, one of 'em a working cowboy, and how it falls apart and why ...
"She left me this morning, went her own way/now and I'm sittin' here thinkin' in the heat of the day/an old played out land/and an old run down shack/I couldn't blame her if she never looked back ... Guess I can't be a cowboy/and keep a good wife ..."
Dust on the Barbed Wire ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d1RCwyDtARk )
"Never fall in love with the tall men who ride/they are married to the seasons/and the cattle are their pride ..."
Jealous of the Moon ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcANMN8ClR4 )
Age: 71, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cochise County, Arizona, USA
4.
It's never been about looks for me; it's about kink compatibility.
As long as one of us (preferably me) is tied up, well gagged, totally helpless, and completely dependent, I’ll be happy. Rope, cuffs, tape, or restraints are all fine as long as you can’t get free. I prefer bandanna gags but also use hoods, gas masks, and other implements to keep the bottom’s speech muffled and unintelligible. I don’t believe bondage has to be pretty to be functional.
I like to get into the head of my partner to find out what turns him on. Longer scenes are a plus when I top. Sex is usually not a part of the scene for me; it's the mental fuck which I much prefer. Clothing, especially jeans (501s), leather (including my unique fetish for wallets),boots, and gloves are a big turn on. Enforced chastity (under clothing) in public also works for me.
It's all about being in control or being controlled. . . .
GAGS, tight black leather, bondage, gloves, mustaches/goatees, tight 501s, robbery scenes, kidnapping fantasies, leather wallets, breath control (giving only), bikers, cowboys, men in suits, real men, gear, chastity. I love wearing the other guy's clothing/gear down to the details even if it doesn't fit.
Other interests: Photography, swing dancing, cooking, calligraphy, shorthand systems.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Passaic County, New Jersey, USA
5.
I am shy and inexperienced. I am a professional guy with rural roots. I enjoy gaming, reading, road
trips, music, and tv. I love winter and winter gear like coveralls. Guys in coveralls turn me on; naked or d*ck pics do not.
I’m looking for friendship first. I’d like to find my best friend. I definitely am looking for someone who also likes winter and winter clothes! Additionally, someone who shares some of my other interests would be great.
I don’t smoke or use drugs and am a light drinker. I’m looking for someone who also doesn’t smoke or use drugs.
Age: 51, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Bemidji, Beltrami County, Minnesota, USA
6.
Lot of country, a little bit of city in this professional. Looking forward to meeting a man who has broad interests.
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Sydney, New South Wales, AUSTRALIA
7.
Masculine guy here that's pretty hairy, muscular, gotee. I'm looking for a quality guy that's
looking for something real, long term. Semi retired, I'm geo-flexible, now based in coastal GA. Nature lover, prefer country over city. Attracted to masc. guys that are fit and know how to love, have experience with dating and LTR. I'm a great kisser, easy going, affectionate and versatile in the sak.
Age: 60, male, looking for a man in Brunswick, Georgia, USA
8.
Tall (6’4), mature, masculine, and secure. I’m very comfortable and confident in my own skin.
Not into any kind of drama, and expect the same. Interested In older masculine and preferably hairy men over 50 to see what develops. Please note: You must be able to carry on an intelligent conversation and be financially secure (as I am). Facial hair is a MUST. Mustaches go to the front of the line, as do men with a good and witty sense of humor! I’m an AVID car nut and ideally would like to find a man that shares the same passion. However; this is certainly not a requirement. Don’t be shy, say hello.
Age: 40, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Modesto, California, USA
9.
I've owned businesses, managed businesses, and worked as an independent contractor.
I've been a helicopter pilot, and piloted the 1912 Ford Model T Speedster in my garage. I'm relaxed in the desert, comfortable in the forest, and competent in the city.
What about you? Tell me about you, rather than asking what I'm here for. We'll get to that. If there's chemistry.
Age: 67, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Hilo, Hawaii, USA
10.
I'm a Texan looking for other like minded men. Love to ride horses and go to rodeos. I didn't grow up a cowboy but have always been attracted to a good ol' country boy. I enjoy spending time at my uncles farm surrounded by horses, mules, goats, chickens, donkeys, etc. I would love to find someone to go for a ride with and then kick back with a cold one.
Age: 48, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Austin, Texas, USA
11.
A buddy to go to the shooting range with, or go cast a line at the lake. If he wants to tag along and act as my assistant/"groom" or visa versa at a horse show would be awesome too. Really anything other than "flying solo" around El Paso and Elbert County would be nice.
Age: 38, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters in El Paso County, Colorado, USA
12.
In a perfect world you would move here and help me on the ranch. It would be good if you were
mechanical too. A love of plants , and cooking. It would not hurt if you were fuzzy as compared to smooth. But I can live with most things.
Age: 65, male, looking for dating with a man in Lawrence, Kansas, USA
13.
Not looking.....
Age: 70, male, looking for friends (only!) in Valparaiso, South Bend, Indiana, USA
14.
Cowboy into rope bondage fetish. I love to be tied up. Pretty private guy (parnered). I love a
cowboy that want to dom me. I love verbal domination. Hit me up if you want to chat. I have a crazy schedule, but if we meet up for drinks and the chemistry clicks, who knows, maybe we'll even rodeo. WOOF! *****
I do like to write cowboy stories if you are interested in getting a hard-on by reading - check it out! *****
http://cowboylust.blogspot.com/ *****
Enjoy!
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Keywords:
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BDSM
boot lick
bondage
cowboy
handcuffs
lasso
rodeo
rope
slave
tied-up
Age: 62, male, looking for friends with a man in Missouri City, Fort Bend County, Texas, USA
15.
Recovering academic with a heavy-duty cowboy/outlaw/lawman/gunslinger fetish. Ethnicity:
"Scotch-Irish" (or whatever it was in Tennessee) on father's side, English/Flemish on mother's. Sexual mindset: Kinky. Religion: Protestant, somewhere between Episcopalian and Methodist. Politics: liberal who doesn't understand why believing in the equality of all under the law regardless of race, creed, gender, etc., a flexible and nonpartisan administrative state, a tax code progressive enough to discourage vast concentration of wealth, and vigorous and farsighted environmental and energy policies necessitates being a goddamn wimp who won't even defend his own positions let alone his life or property. Aesthetics: all over the place, as you would expect from someone whose favorite novel is Joyce's Ulysses and whose favorite filmmaker is John Ford. (And I don't even have the excuse of being Irish!) Frugal. Keeps appointments. Affectionate. Enthusiastic cook and overeater. Strictly social drinker. Non-smoker, though has considered taking up the pipe for the sheer looks of it. Swears. Can ride a little (Western, of course). Can host.
Age: 64, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Trenton, New Jersey, USA
16.
Seeking a mature masculine man who is not into the bar scene and who enjoys the everyday country living atmosphere.
Age: 69, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Cameron County, Texas, USA
17.
I'm low maintenance and independent.
Age: 43, male, looking for a man in Niagara Region, Golden Horseshoe, Ontario, CANADA
18.
Howdy, single country guy, 6ft, 210 lbs, height/weight proportionate, love the country/western
lifestyle looking to meet the same for friendship primarily, dating and even open to a LTR when the right guy comes along. I let things happen naturally based on chemistry, mutual interests and connection. Not a one time random hook up kind of guy, I like some sort of connection first. I'm an easy going, friendly, approachable and normal "no attitude" guy with a wide variety of interests, including the gym, love country music and dancing, rodeos and much more. Love to travel and my future travel plans including visiting Texas (Dallas/Fort Worth, Austin, San Antonio and Houston) so guys from that state are certainly welcome to contact me as well as from anywhere else. Love a guy who is masculine, friendly with a good sense of humour. If you liked what you read, shoot me a message. Let's get to know each other.
Age: 52, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship or intimate encounters with a man in Winnipeg, Manitoba, CANADA
19.
I just like to be myself and let others be themselves and see where it goes! I'm honest and genuine and am looking for likewise in a top as I am a big 'ol bottom!
Don't like posers and users or people with agendas! If you're none of these we'll get along fine! Not sure if true love or soulmates exist, change my mind! I'm kinda of shy and like alone time! Not into bar scenes although I do like a good drink! Maybe when the pandemic is over we can go out!
Age: 58, male, looking for friends or a long term relationship with a man in Seattle, Washington, USA
20.
I am living on the small farm I grew up on. It is simply home. I have been on another dating site which is mostly a hookup place. Not what I'm looking for, and guys from the city usually don't understand the country or the ties to the land country people have. Looking for someone who may be a potential partner, and wants to share a quiet life in the country. If you are a person who craves constant activity and excitement, this is not the place for you. If I send you a message, it is because I find your profile interesting, and would like to say hi. Hope you'll do the same.
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Age: 74, male, looking for friends or dating or a long term relationship with a man in Rural Area, Nebraska, USA Page 1 ⋅ Next